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Originally Posted by suzzer99
I've thought about volunteering for some of these things, but the whole fear of being falsely implicated by some troubled kid is definitely a big deterrent.
i do a LOT with the kids at my school. after school all the time watching movies, starting a poker club, tutoring, advanced learning, etc. and a lot of the time i end up having to take kids home. never have even blinked about it (parents always know ahead of time, usually because they couldn't come get them themselves), though it's almost always boys (i have taken 3 female sisters home a lot, i was decently close with their mother) but i guess i never really thought that a boy could accuse me all the same.
i probably won't change, because i'm one of those 'genuinely cares' people. but that said, i guess i do leave myself open to this kind of thing because i feel like the kids and the parents know i'm legit and trying to help.
i dunno. probably something i should consider. i know me saying that the kids that i'm around 'after hours' or coaching or whatever i'm doing i've had for several years and i know their parents and blahblahblah means nothing in the end, but NOT trying to help/motivate/see succeed isn't something that i could probably do at this point in my life.