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Originally Posted by goofyballer
Sooooo that means you shouldn't bang "a smokeshow" who "looks incredible"...why?!?!?
You're stuck on level 1.
He's being dishonest with himself at that point. He'd resigned himself to not wanting a future with FG, being completely over her after
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The devastation I felt when she'd leave me stranded. The anger I felt when she'd ignore me until she needed a favour. The disappointment I felt when I upset her. The trepidation I felt when we finally put everything on the table last year...and the resulting heartbreak I felt when she made it abruptly clear we were nothing more than friends, unlikely to ever change.
That's not an easy thing to put behind you, and he'd done it. If he sleeps with her, he's reopening that entire can of worms just to see her up and move away forever. It's easy to say blah blah blah, you know this was a one time thing, no attachment, blah blah, but in reality this isn't how it works. Try it.