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Originally Posted by Former DJ
One thing Hillary did not touch on, but I'm convinced is absolutely true, is the attitude some women have about Hillary's husband. There are married (generally conservative leaning) women I know who despise her husband. Bill Clinton's blatant adultery and infidelity strikes fear into their hearts. For these women, the fear that their own husband might do the same thing to them is devastating. So their rejection of Hillary is more a rejection of her husband. There's probably no way to measure this, but I sense that a substantial number of women voted against Hillary because they couldn't stand her husband. The thing with Hillary is that she can't bring herself to admit that - at least not publicly.
More likely is that their husbands are ****ty or various degrees of ****ty (philandering, insensitive, see their wives as subservient, etc). They aren't afraid their husbands might become dicks; they live it. Sure, they despise Bill in a sense, but we contain multitudes and they at least understand him. They can buy into his worldview -- a guy who walks around constantly trying to get his dick wet is a known character and fits their political world view and frame. They don't like it but they abide by it. This is covered well here:
https://www.amazon.com/Wimp-Factor-P...he+wimp+factor
...about why Bill's likability and relatability rated so high while HRC's was so low despite the fact they share identical, indstinguishiable politics.
Conservative-ish women have internalized these sorts of gender differences to whatever degree and they're annoyed Hillary Clinton continues (in their mind) to take such a strong feminist pose (or pretense, from their point of view) rather than embrace her role as a wounded wife. Men probably feel much the same way.
Hence a bunch of the claims she's a phony. They see the humiliation and degradation of Bill's affairs should have taught her a lesson, taught her to be less cold, stop being such an ambitious and frigid bitchy type, to accept it as the way of the world and her role in it. They see that partly as how she got into that mess and why her husband strayed.
That she continues not to take the pose as a more conservative, meek, subservient wife is an affront to them. That's the path many of them chose. To live it out and submit to their husbands as they do the Lord, blah blah moew chow.
So I think it's more political and less personal than you let on. Even conservative women can embrace an authoritarian pose where punishment and pain is the great teacher. They think the affairs and the philandering should have been the life experiences that browbeat her into submission and taught her the perils of being a bitchy feminist. But she didn't. That makes her even more strident in her phoniness, in her ambition, her pretense she sells to people that they really don't like. Look how political she must be! Deep down she must now see the true nature of the world and yet she persists pretending she's above it all, that she's a feminist, etc., shame on her. She should have learned better. It deepened their dislike. If she had come out of the affair(s) and genuflected more as the subservient wife who meekly attended to her husband and tried to be a better women to satisfy him, she'd have won them over more.
tl;dr summary: they're annoyed HRC didn't take her life experiences and use them to become a better conservative Republican
Last edited by DVaut1; 10-23-2017 at 09:09 AM.