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Originally Posted by DeuceKicker
NewOldGuy you've had dozens of opportunities to move the discussion into whatever direction you want. You've been invited by half a dozen different people to lay out your positions explicitly, and it seems you only want to keep repeating how nobody will engage you.
I get that it can be overwhelming having 20 people responding to you. How about this... you pick one topic that you want to discuss and two people with which to discuss it, and everybody else is just a silent onlooker.
Yeah, that is a very healthy form of discussion...
I did not read 95% of this thread (and perhaps a bunch of people will swarm in to mention that etc etc), but the pattern of behavior you mention here is standard for any new poster that does not fall into line.
Creating a fake bubble within a bubble where the person has to debate a few specific people as others agree to watch is silly, and hardly natural. That just creates variants of threads like this that go nowhere.
With all of that said, why is this a big deal anyway. This forum is like any other forum with a very tight range of belief structures that are approved, and as such it is very hostile to new posters that do not follow them, and the swarm here has a ton of muscle memory experience to hurl quick points and memes and troll labels at any interloper offering an opinion that does not agree with how things work.
This forum will not get a lot of new contributing regular posters, and why would it? It is not welcoming to that, so why not just be what it is. Sure, you guys had to behave a bit nicer under threat of the owner slashing it, and you are kind of doing that, with some snark and passive aggressive stuff about that need being tossed in the mix, so continue that for a while and carry on pretty much as you have in the past.
The one suggestion, which can be considered or ignored, I would make is reduce the amount of posts dedicated to twitter comments made by relative randos. Those tend to clog down any points being made. The non stop silly pictures of Trump posted by the guy who had the fetish collection of those stopped, and that change made threads a lot more readable as well, so things can be improved while working with the innate limitations of the dynamics of those within this forum.