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Originally Posted by goofyballer
Okay. You repeatedly post things like this:
I ask "what is the discussion you're trying to have". You ignore that question. I ask you again. You ignore it again and instead respond with a "gotcha" ("lol I never said what you said I said!"). You are exactly the person you think is boring in the quote above; there is no discussion you're interested in having here, you just want to be right. That is why, repeatedly, when asked what the discussion is that the rest of us are apparently avoiding, you ignore it and run away.
Okay, I can see you thinking that.
The discussion I wanted to have was the very interesting one about the vet abuse mythology being wrong. And when I entered the discussion to give my personal account of some vet abuse - simply saying, "hey, I remember this" - I got shouted down as a liar and someone trying to perpetuate anti-liberal biases, or something.
Could I have responded better to Fly after he told me pics or GTFO? Sure, but I was responding in kind.
Again, I have no dog in this fight. I thought the links and books Dvaut and Fly were interesting and would've loved to learn more about them and discuss them. Instead, all I got was that I'm a liar or I have a false memory. So how did I respond? I asked my Mom what SHE remembered! And she confirmed both my memory of the event AND the fact, that it wasn't some anti-vet movement doing the abuse, but some random kids.
And I reported that. Because I thought it was interesting.
And then somehow people thought that meant my memory had been faulty somehow and I won't admit it...or something. Again, I am completely perplexed at the venom this thread has thrown at me. Am I hurt? LOL **** no. Just confused as hell.
I'm not disagreeing with anyone or saying they are wrong about Vietnam Vet abuse. It is possible that for the most part, a lot of that was exaggerated or made up AND my experience to be true. I spent a half a day washing that garage door of epithets.
And then you come in saying - I really don't know what. That I'm crying over being treated poorly and boo hoo? No, I'm not...I just want an explanation as to why the lot of you thought I was lying about my own experience and how that automatically makes me a liberal traitor to the cause.
Then...I'm done with the thread and see the above post from Trolly calling me a liar yet again - and now about my ****ing job lol.
So excuse me for me not seeing how wonderfully conversational and informative you guys are being in this thread. All I'm seeing is you guys snickering in the corner over "lol olds." That's MY experience of this thread.
Am I sometimes guilty of being unclear? I sure I am. I don't put the effort into most posts the way a lot of you seem to. Look at the number of posts I have. For cris'sake, I'm sure most of them are crap.
The only thing I ask is that if I am unclear or that I'm saying something that is contradictory, is that you let me know without the ridiculous name calling (of which I am also to blame). I'll do my best to make things more clear.
But if you all just want to say "**** that, we like the invective and name calling because this is the internet," then fine. <shrug> That's your prerogative. Doesn't mean I have to respond.
Now...is there anything else that I have not answered to your satisfaction? I'm serious, I would like to make sure I am not skipping over anything or, as you say, "running away."
I mean, Jesus, Dude...we've been on this site together for over a decade. I'd think you'd be able to ask me something and I could answer without all this ****ing drama.