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Is there a sexual harassment conversation to be had? Is there a sexual harassment conversation to be had?

11-16-2017 , 12:47 PM
As for the photo, let's apply the wife test: if that was your unconscious wife or girlfriend in the photo, would you want to punch Franken?

If so, he probably needs to step down.
11-16-2017 , 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Namath12
If he stuck his tongue down her throat without her consent that's assault
Gah, gross.
11-16-2017 , 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Noodle Wazlib
As for the photo, let's apply the wife test: if that was your unconscious wife or girlfriend in the photo, would you want to punch Franken?

If so, he probably needs to step down.
Let's flip it around even: If it was a picture of a sleeping Al Franken with Hillary Clinton pretending to grab his dick, is it a nothingburger or a "Lock her up!"?
11-16-2017 , 12:56 PM
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The definition includes the word "unwanted". They go on to explain it doesn't matter if you were wrong, intent is irrelevant, how it is received is the only thing that matters
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Originally Posted by TiltedDonkey
God damn, that is a terrible way to write a rule.
It's not the rule, at least not the way he's written it there. He's right that the conduct doesn't need to be intentional. But there's a "reasonable person" component of the definition, which means that conduct doesn't amount to sexual harassment if it wouldn't offend a reasonable woman in the same situation. So, it's not entirely dependent on the subjective feelings of the victim.
11-16-2017 , 01:01 PM
By the way a theater in London where Spacey was Artistic Director for ten years did an investigation and found 20 incidents of harassment / assault.

It’s not really surprising when this stuff just keeps piling up on these guys. The chances some guy harassed or assaulted just one person one time is really tiny if they did not get caught the first time.
11-16-2017 , 01:11 PM
Just going to go ahead and assume Franken is a serial rapist. Assuming that accusations like this are exaggerated one time incidents doesn't really have a great track record.
11-16-2017 , 01:13 PM
Floodgates are opening in the UK as well

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2017_W...exual_scandals

Turns out that every rich man in power like to sexually harass women. Only a matter of time before the political equivalent of Jimmy Saville is found in office.
11-16-2017 , 01:20 PM
To me the kissing when she wanted no part of it and it wasn't with the intent of making anybody else laugh because it was just the two of them, that's the worst part of this.

Given that the photo happened after their relationship turned sour due to Franken's unwanted advances, the photo def takes more of a menacing tone than joking tone. I don't think he's groping her in the photo, I think his hands are just placed there to make it look like he is. Which again, is inappropriate and not funny, but not sexual assault.
11-16-2017 , 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Zimmer4141
but not sexual assault.
It is absolutely sexual assault.

first Google result:

https://www.self.com/story/sexual-assault-definition

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According to the United States Department of Justice, sexual assault is “any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient.”
Before jurisdictional nits come in, yes, depending on what state you are in it may not be assault according to that specific state's laws.
11-16-2017 , 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Namath12
If he stuck his tongue down her throat without her consent that's assault
Yep.
11-16-2017 , 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted by champstark
Before jurisdictional nits come in, yes, depending on what state you are in it may not be assault according to that specific state's laws.
They were in the Middle East apparently, so I assume sharia law calls for her to be stoned to death.
11-16-2017 , 01:35 PM
Zimmer, making a moralistic or legalistic argument that what Al did isn't sexual assault is not a good look. It 100% is and he should step down.

I guess the fear is that if senators start resigning for allegations of sexual assault/harassment that there'll be 10 senators remaining in Congress by the end of this year.
11-16-2017 , 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Noodle Wazlib
it's kind of a tricky situation, because yeah you can see shadows under his hands, but who knows what happened immediately before or after the shot? Pretty bad look to invade someone's space like that even if you don't cop a feel
Wat? No one knows so there isn’t much point speculating. Her testimony is that she was asleep and saw this picture after the fact. There were plenty of other people on that plane who will be interviewed about what happened and then we’ll know what happened before and after the pic.
11-16-2017 , 01:36 PM
Are there really only ten women senators?
11-16-2017 , 01:38 PM
Just because I can't resist the urge to be a nit, she actually did explicitly give consent to the kiss (part of rehearsal). Problem was that it was overly forceful. But again, I don't really care to defend Franken in the least here.
11-16-2017 , 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted by SuperUberBob
Floodgates are opening in the UK as well

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2017_W...exual_scandals

Turns out that every rich man in power like to sexually harass women. Only a matter of time before the political equivalent of Jimmy Saville is found in office.
I have long been a proponent for banning men from political office. If that ends up being the de-facto result of all this I would call it one hell of a silver lining.
11-16-2017 , 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Zimmer4141
To me the kissing when she wanted no part of it and it wasn't with the intent of making anybody else laugh because it was just the two of them, that's the worst part of this.

Given that the photo happened after their relationship turned sour due to Franken's unwanted advances, the photo def takes more of a menacing tone than joking tone. I don't think he's groping her in the photo, I think his hands are just placed there to make it look like he is. Which again, is inappropriate and not funny, but not sexual assault.
Yep. He's persecuting her and already knew she wanted no part of him. It's not an innocent joke after the tongue incident.
11-16-2017 , 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted by NMcNasty
Just because I can't resist the urge to be a nit, she actually did explicitly give consent to the kiss (part of rehearsal). Problem was that it was overly forceful. But again, I don't really care to defend Franken in the least here.
It definitely sounds like he coerced her and was massively creepy, before the assault portion. Almost like maybe he wrote a bit that included kissing just so he could have an excuse to stick his tongue down her throat.

Personal story: in middle school, our class put on a production and the lead male was supposed to kiss the lead female at the end of the show. I ended up getting the lead. We did not practice the kiss scene ever. When we did the show live, the girl was uncomfortable with the idea of kissing, so we just hugged.

Somehow I’ve never been accused of sexually assaulting someone. Go figure.
11-16-2017 , 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Zimmer4141
To me the kissing when she wanted no part of it and it wasn't with the intent of making anybody else laugh because it was just the two of them, that's the worst part of this.

Given that the photo happened after their relationship turned sour due to Franken's unwanted advances, the photo def takes more of a menacing tone than joking tone. I don't think he's groping her in the photo, I think his hands are just placed there to make it look like he is. Which again, is inappropriate and not funny, but not sexual assault.
Obviously depends on how aware Franken was of the relationship. If she just avoided being alone with him or talking to him without being spoken to first he may not have thought anything about it. This is interesting because if we take both people at there word the incidents severity changes a lot.

If this happened as she remembers is it enough to force Franken to step down? I don’t know. We’ll see if anyone else comes forward I guess.
11-16-2017 , 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Noodle Wazlib
Personal story: in middle school, our class put on a production and the lead male was supposed to kiss the lead female at the end of the show. I ended up getting the lead. We did not practice the kiss scene ever. When we did the show live, the girl was uncomfortable with the idea of kissing, so we just hugged.

Somehow I’ve never been accused of sexually assaulting someone. Go figure.
How do you know she didn’t want to kiss you? Franken may well have wore her down asking to rehearse the scene, but that’s not how he remembers it. From his POV he asked to rehearse a scene and took the kiss too far, when told that he didn’t do it again despite how ever many times the did the scene on the tour. What he did was bad but how bad depends on who you believe and how much.
11-16-2017 , 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by TrollyWantACracker
I have long been a proponent for banning men from political office. If that ends up being the de-facto result of all this I would call it one hell of a silver lining.
Ben Shapiro is ahead of you but doesn't quit arrive at the conclusion you would think

11-16-2017 , 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Noodle Wazlib
Are there really only ten women senators?
21. I just made up ten on the fly.

But hey, maybe some men will come forward about touchy-feely female Senators. Who knows?
11-16-2017 , 01:59 PM
That is disappointing Franken.
11-16-2017 , 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Huehuecoyotl
Ben Shapiro is ahead of you but doesn't quit arrive at the conclusion you would think

No dice. Robot politicians are guaranteed to be men.
11-16-2017 , 02:22 PM
It is funny seeing so many deplorables split on if they should side with the accuser because Franken is a dem or stand on the side of male privilege because bitches be lyin'.

I thought ***** was filtered. Oh, it is, but bitches isn’t.

      
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