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Originally Posted by bobman0330
1) Not sure why Angelina's sex moves are newsworthy.
2) Gossip magazines run personal details about people's private lives all the time, with no regard whatsoever to whether they are newsworthy. It's distasteful, but generally the standard for whether details about people's private life get published is whether they are interesting.
3) It's relevant that if Brad tried to slander Angelina by spreading around [offensive personal detail], Brad is the one who looks bad rather than Angelina. These kind of potential abuses are largely self-limiting by the fact that it's usually the bad actors who end up looking bad.
Perhaps we misunderstand each other. I understood "newsworthy" to mean "will sell copies of my magazine/newspaper" i.e. whether they are interesting. If you mean something more like whether it's in the public interest for the information to come out then we more or less agree.
Regarding 3) maybe not in the Brad case but what if it was an ex from before she was famous who just didn't care about his public reputation, or if the publication just kept him anonymous as with "Grace"? Doesn't she have a general right to privacy? In the Ansari case it's relevant that he was presenting himself as some kind of feminist campaigner in the public sphere and the public interest in it being known that he's into disrespectful forms of sex can override his right to privacy. If this was someone who generally presents themselves as an old dog like e.g. Jack Nicholson then it would be harder to justify it.
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Originally Posted by Johnny Truant
The issue is when she signaled to stop he blew past it and when she straight told him to stop, particularly when she used words like "forced", he acknowledged it, played rope a dope and kept going.
Some people interpret the
"I don't want to feel forced" quote as meaning "I don't want to have sex with you" - it can also be interpreted as "I'm probably willing to have sex with you if you just do it old school style." which you seem to acknowledge below:
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Originally Posted by Johnny Truant
You and I agreed about more than one thing itt, like the fact that he probably could have got laid that night had he calmed down and paid attention to her.
Isn't "play rope-a-dope" pretty much the same as "calm down and pay attention to her". His execution was rubbish in that though.
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Originally Posted by rugby
1. Um. The USA legalised gay marriage in every state recently?
This was the supreme court (neatly bypassing the need to persuade the public) and is such is to a great extent a symptom of how people were voting 20 years ago, so doesn't really contradict his point.
But society's views (and with them the views of moderate and liberal SC justices) on gay marriage have been moving a couple of percent a year because people have just got used to the idea of there being gay couples around, because of it being presented as something normal, not something radical and upsetting.
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Originally Posted by revots33
Anyway regarding your argument: you're wrong. Acting like a horndog who wants to **** as soon as you get a girl into your apartment after a first date, is not acceptable behavior. Even if the girl happens to be one of the few who is 100% OK with it, it's a smarmy move and uncalled for.
Reading between the lines, if the dinner conversation was so bad he wanted to come home early and get the sex over with without finishing the wine then it's clear there was never going to be a second date.
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Originally Posted by FlyWf
Yeah I guess there's a "don't kiss and tell" general rule of thumb but it's not like she breached some sort of one night standee privilege here. If you do weird **** with your dates they tell their friends. If you're famous, they can tell a reporter.
If there's no general right to privacy then presumably that cuts both ways. It's still relatively unusual **** for people to go to a reporter. Would you be ok at this point with Ansari revealing the identity of "Grace" so people know what they are potentially getting into when they go on a date with her?