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Originally Posted by Jules22
Let me pull the needle off the record right there. I have always had the opinion, and recently with the way things are going I feel validated, that you should never poop where you eat. Unless you are not interested in your job going well I would advise that workplace romances have pretty much gone the way of the dodo, and even before the were becoming taboo are just a terrible idea. Maybe 1% of said romances don't end in a train wreck, people need to be smarter and find some leads for tail in a bar or tinder etc.
Top 2 things people spend time at.
1) Sleep
2) Work
Since you cannot find a date while sleeping odds are your spending most of your free time with coworkers. (Hormones > Brain function)
Now where else did humans USE to meet people socially.
BARS - lol what percentage of people go to bars these days compared to 20 years ago. Bars are good for one thing these days a 4000 dollar DUI or a decade or two for vehicular manslaughter. Maybe a drunken rape charge
Friendly get together (card games, book nights, clubs <-- game clubs, riding clubs, MC's not dance clubs with drugs and booze) actually probably still a good option these days other than the drama that happens when you fall in love with your best friends sister, getting divorced with 3 kids and never talking to your friends again.
Internet dating - Well it's huge farmers, Christians, little people, cosplay, aliens whatever there is a site for you... Downside 90 percent of the people probably only want a one night stand or to murder you.
While workplace romances are prob a bad idea...as it could ruin a promising career. it's probably the best place to get to know someone long term without the chances of getting thrown in Jail, a DUI, Ruining all your friendships, or getting murdered