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DVaut I think this last one is particularly relevant btw, I bet if I'd asked you before showing you this link, you would have said it was impossible that someone who is LITERALLY WRITING AN ARTICLE ABOUT LANGUAGE WHICH NEGATIVELY IMPACTS MINORITIES could use the phrase "14 words" without awareness of its loaded meaning. Yet, there we are.
Sure, OK. I didn't see your examples initially. Clearly it's more common for clickbait headlines to get up to numbers > 9 and maybe 14 isn't as random as I thought. Conceded.
Still, like I said, I think any responsible analysis has to include some priors: like I said, and I'm going to copy and paste from microbet since he did it succinctly: The article was about Trump's white power speech and comes from a conservative website and was posted and left up by an ultra-nationalist gun nut has to assume the likelihood one to many people in the content-sharing chain know the meaning and acted intentionally.
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DVaut I think you're conflating a few things wrt Fly. I agree that his rhetoric in isolation isn't particularly unusual. I'll agree that the people who are #triggered by him are generally snowflakes, I MAY even co-sign the bit where people are unused to being talked down to thanks to social privilege (although I think if Fly unveiled his standard rhetoric against a woman, he would be judged harshly for it). I thought your post about Sklansky and the abuse he gets was a good one.
Separate questions though: Fly's rhetoric isn't unusual in tone, but is it unusual in how disproportionate it is to whatever "crime" was committed by the poster? And is it detrimental to the quality of discussion in this forum? I'd argue yes on both counts. I don't hate Fly as a poster - he posts some good stuff sometimes - but when he goes full Fly, it's annoying, it ruins threads and it drives people away.
There was a separate question like this ("would you want a whole forum of Flys?!"). I'll take them together.
Obviously anything that trends to homogeneity is boring.
However, I think Fly on the whole improves the discussion on the forum. We could use a right-wing Fly! Implicit in all your point here is whatever "full Fly" is. I think I get the concept but the Full Fly is actually a bunch of solid content, knowledge, cultural references -- funny stuff. As I've tried to argue: even derision and shaming people, ridiculing them -- I consider them somewhat value neutral. I don't always see it as bad. I've made a hordes of bad posts on this forum over the years, people **** all over me, I consider their points and sometimes I run away with my tail between my legs and think differently or change my mind. Is that a crime? Did a bad thing happen there? No. It didn't.
Obviously, I can acknowledge the Fly style
can be bad. I'm not praising it as ideal, or always appropriate. But it's a tool and it can be used and be effective. Obviously Fly or any of us are going to miss the mark sometimes. That's bad when that happens, but anyone who sets out to be witty and funny won't be perfect every time. And we're all adults here and should be able to deal with some harsh words on the internet, when the mistakes get made. I realize some of you read that and think we're now on the slippery slope to Ann Coulter calling 9/11 widows harpies, game over, THE DISCOURSE IS RUINED. But we can probably draw the line at the criticism being aimed at 1 person about a thing they wrote on the internet versus large numbers of people already victimized and broadcasting the view on TV. It's not a hard line to draw.
In the end: the people that REALLY lose their **** and really perpetuate the distraction are the people Fly interacts with. The people that are unused to being talked down to thanks to social privilege. Fly's skill is finding them. As I said, you can quickly identify the 5-10 low-self awareness, stridently haughty -- the guys with an unearned sense of pride -- the posters who follow Fly around with years long grudges and muddy up the forum with their usually hypocritical tone policing and whining and bickering. I can probably name the banned ones like ikestoys and Hasten Dan. Usually the posters are just as abrasive as Fly is accused of being. As I said, perhaps Fly has made other enemies who are better and closer to the side of the scale of a solid contributor. No one is perfect. On the whole, Fly is good for the forum and the problems Fly 'creates' are often more attributable to the special flower Flybabies who can't get over themselves.