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Fellow whites,
I believe that many men are quick to consider the possibility that a guy who sexually assaulted a woman when he was 17 has changed and is now a fine upstanding adult because they too behaved inappropriately with women when they were young. I believe that most men would not look very good if their very worst behavior were recorded and/or testified to. That includes people who have legitimately grown and changed and become better people. That includes me, definitely for the former and hopefully for the latter.
Similarly, I believe that most white people (men at least) have said or done or said something racially insensitive or outright racist at some point when they were young and stupid and would not want the details recorded and presented for posterity. I again include myself here.
Because of this stuff, because we know when we were total and complete ****heads for a good period of our lives and hopefully no longer are, we don't want to be forever condemned for stuff we did or said before our brains were fully developed.
I think there's something to that, but consider the fact that women and minorities absolutely know that this a huge reason why people can find defenses of Kavanaugh and Northam. They also know it because they have spent their entire lives using the goddamn buddy system when they want to go out drinking in college or walking into rooms full of laughter that suddenly go silent when they enter.
I have no conclusion, I don't know the answer. I don't think excusing abhorrent behavior is right, but I also don't think we must answer for our 17 year old selves forever. Actual change is going to require a cultural shift over a very long period of time and I think the Kavanaughs and Northams are going to have to answer for all of our sins.
I’m not defending Kavanaugh because he attempted to rape somebody and that is worse than this. That said, Northam wasn’t in the “adolescent without fully formed brain” stage. He chose this as his yearbook photo in his last year of medical school. So we’re talking, what, mid to late 20’s? I think I read this was 30 years ago and he is 59, so that would make him 29 at the time. I mean, for context, you’re talking about someone who’s the same age as Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.