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Originally Posted by All-In Flynn
I may or may not agree. I've thought about the issue and agree that it seems like a problem, but I don't really have a good solution. Say we make every birth of a child to parents who aren't together a custody battle to be determined by the state. What are the criteria? Whoever's richer? Will favour men. Criminal record = you lose? Will favour women. It's difficult to foresee a set of criteria that won't import the prior inequalities in the system.
Well, I mean it would be hard to be more unequal than the current system using any criteria. But I would think wealth, income, job stability, job flexibility, criminal record, housing situation (including how often you've moved in the past 5 years), education level, general maturity as best as can be determined, and some other factors would be incorporated.
Furthermore, this is not only an issue for newborn children as it also comes into play in divorces with kids who have spent years in a home with both parents playing a role in their upbringing. In many of these cases a father could easily be better as a single parent than a mother, but they are very rarely given the opportunity.