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Originally Posted by OmgGlutten!
what percent of people who work do it because they want to? we do hear those stories of the lotto winner who gets driving a bus, but both men and women work almost exclusively for $...
so, i have always found the criticism of those 1950 pictures where the wife is cooking dinner kind of silly. gender roles aside, getting to stay home and cook an actual balanced dinner means you are pretty damn lucky.
in the vast majority of cases, that housewife cooking dinner didn't become sarrah jessica parker in Sex in the City she became Wendy at Walmart and the dinner became the dollar menu at Mcdonalds.
is it really about women having more opportunity to have a career or just declining real wages and wealth inequality?
It's about a lot of things. Sure, declining real wages have meant more families need a second bread winner to make ends meet. But also;
- staying at home all day gets pretty boring, especially when the average family is starting to have fewer children, use husehold technology (dishwashers, laundry machines, etc) to reduce the amount of time needed to maintain the house, and live in more socially isolated suburbs. If you are an educated woman, getting a job could provide a certain amount of stimulation that just staying home and making sure that you greet the husband with a pot roast and a martini at the end of his day just can't provide (c.f. The Feminine Mystique)
- There was an increasing recognition that many women who stayed at home were vulnerable to abuse/ economic coercion by the husband or got screwed when the husband died or ran off with his secretary, so women saw the advantage of keeping up some employment as a means of maintaining a bit of independence.
- don't forget that the image of the relatively carefree stay at home mom was always a representation of one certain type of privileged woman. Back in the day, there were many women who might not have been counted in the traditional labor force, but still brought in income by, for example, doing piecework sewing jobs, cleaning houses, selling homemade jams or sauces, etc.
Tl/dr: Poor women were participating in the gif economy before the gig economy was cool and Ward and June Cleaver did not represent the typical family in 1950's America.