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Originally Posted by Money2Burn
A little while ago, I think someone (dvaut?) posted an article contrasting civility and decency. Does anyone have a link to it, I've been searching but I can't find it.
It was probably me. Unfortunately the blog author took it offline so I'd have to find my original post. But the point was that you will often find just so much inhumanity expressed in political thoughts and then those same people will turn around and demand civility in discourse.
So it's like Person A is like, yeah we should really just nuke the Middle East, make their sand glow, take their oil and Person B is like "holy **** you're a ****ing terrible douche monster, that is heinous" and then Person A will get their hackles up and dismiss Person B as horribly uncivil while they spout advocacy for war crimes, torture, terrible treatment of people and other crimes against nature.
Then you take it the next step further and note it's not just that these people are sensitive babies and all that irony of saying horrible things and advocating miserable treatment of people while demanding you be treated with respect -- that's all good to note. But it's that the insistence on civility is
the point. The demand to treat their horrible **** civilly is to further normalize their ideas, to put it within the bounds of respectable discourse. Sure, they don't want you to embarrass them, but the polite conversation itself is part of the scheme. They're trying to suppress the natural instinct to revulsion. Talk about it in respectful ways is to allow it to be part of an acceptable mosaic of ideas and options.
You frankly see it in a limited sense in the whole "calling someone racist is worse than being a racist" pearl clutching. Sure, of course, most of those people are just whiny babies who want you to sit in respectful silence but they also intuitively get that their ideas can get over and be normalized so long as we entertain them in polite conversation. They get that you might not agree but allowing them to join the normal discourse is so critical. You see it with FoldNDark who wants to talk about differential IQs between different races and religions and people are like "what's the point of this, you don't really agree with the conclusions drawn?" and he's like oh no no, of course not, but why do you hate science and study?! Most of the practitioners of this **** get that people aren't going to suddenly embrace their pseudoscience mumbo jumbo, the entire point of The Bell Curve esque discussions is to let "are blacks just naturally stupid?" back into the respectable dialog, not to actually get you to conclude blacks are naturally stupid. Let "studying race and inherited intelligence" into norms of academic stuff and they know that opens up a whole host of **** you can now normalize and insert into the popular conscience.
tl;dr: insisting on civility isn't so much superficially about civility and the value of formal politeness, but about what we accept as a norm for what is acceptable to debate
Last edited by DVaut1; 10-21-2016 at 07:56 AM.