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Originally Posted by dereds
I think there's some truth that advocates for a community from outside the community need to know when to stand up and when to shut up. The exercise in privilege I think comes from not knowing when, or not wanting, to do the latter.
Is she really outside the community at this point? From what I can tell, outside of her genetics, every other way that one can describe being a member of the black community she fit the bill and has been since her early twenties. There is a tonne of stuff that goes into having a black identity and forms the community beyond simply skin colour.
Almost every other community I can think of beyond race is a sort of fluid definition. I can become an American, or a Christian, or a feminist, or a woman, or a member of an Internet poker forum, or any number of other things. I can join these communities, I can emerse my life into them, and not just be an outside advocate for them. one isn't less of any of these because one was once a canadian, muslim, MRA, male, gambling critic. Yet somehow for race people seem to be ignoring all of these identity based aspects of the community and having
I think what is throwing people here is just that it is rather unorthodox. I certainly have never heard of it. But transgendered people are also kind of strange. Hard for me to imagine identifying as a different gender, but people do, and we learn to get over our inital sense of strangeness and accept it as a totally legitimate thing.