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Originally Posted by hornbug
Would have been equally tragic if the coworker killed themselves with pills or by jumping off a bridge. The gun is just an inanimate object.
You know absolutely nothing about the psychology or dynamics of suicide.
I have lost two friends to suicide, one with a gun, and one via jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge.
The guy who did it with a gun took it from his parents. The gun was not secured, and his ease of access to it was entirely within their control and decision to keep a gun in the house. Statistics have repeatedly indicated that ease of access is a considerable factor in whether people cross over from suicidal to actively making a suicide attempt, and guns are one of the most "successful" means of suicide. Had the gun been properly secured, or better yet, not been there, he might well not have made the attempt.
The guy who jumped off the bridge researched it for weeks when his parents looked through his browser history. He watched videos of other people who did it. He knew exactly where to make the jump. People who choose this method of suicide more often survive, and in interviews with survivors, most of them say they regretted it the instant they jumped off the bridge. His parents have since become leaders in the movement to get a suicide barrier erected on the bridge, a tactic that has proven successful in preventing suicides in other "hot spots" like bridges in other parts of the country. People do not just "choose another spot," because that is not how the psychology of suicide works. Taking active steps to make problem areas less prone to suicide attempts has actually decreased the incidence of suicides in those areas.
Making it harder for people to commit suicide makes a significant difference in whether they actually attempt it, and the longer they consider it, the more chance of intervention exists. Maybe people ITT think suicide is a sign of weakness and we don't need those people. But having lost two friends that way, I would probably clock someone in the mouth if they said that to my face.