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Originally Posted by microbet
simplicitus,
Not that you're saying your parents were disinterested, but mine definitely weren't. They just didn't interfere or pressure us.
I mean my parents were happy when I did well at school, they just weren't involved in the process. I doubt I showed them my college applications. Pressuring me has never really been a successful approach to eliciting desired behavior (for good or ill), which my mom probably understood.
Math, to my mind, is probably the hardest area to focus on in college, though undergrad math majors can get plenty of good jobs these days. The problem with math is that there are very few wounded animals in the herd to outrun, and you really have to adopt the study of math as a way of life to do tolerably well.
Funny enough, this girl who I always crushed on, head cheerleader at my HS, who was smart (but not really smart), ended up being a math major. Then she married the "smart" quarterback, who went to med school, and became a really good stay at home mom. (His older brother, another jock, ended up going to a top 3 law school and becoming a partner at a major law firm, where he helps support the Federalist society.) Their kids don't appear to be academically inclined from what I can tell from FB.