To continue from last month:
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Originally Posted by goofyballer
Current Affairs article from last year: How Parents Kill Progress
Curious what the forum parents think about it. I don't think it's the best-written piece, but its central argument is pretty simple:
I resemble this remark, expecting #2 in about a month and a half. I've thought about it, and it's a tough dilemma. We've seen multiple manifestations about how human nature tends to make people happier in their station if they are better off relative to other people rather than a situation where they everyone else around them are better off in absolute terms. The right answer is to vote for improving all schools to be equal to each other and all better than a status quo "good school" (such as adopting the Finnish model), but that almost certainly won't manifest between now and when #1 enters school. It probably won't manifest before she leaves for college. But when the system is set up as a zero-sum game, as bobman was arguing, do I have to set myself up to lose to be considered a decent person? Is there a decent way to thread the needle along the lines of competing for the best for my kids, but wanting to do so in the context of a fair game where the competitors are on equal footing? Maybe, but the game doesn't really exist as such, and fixing it also is unlikely to happen in the relevant time window. I'm not totally versed on what tools I have at my disposal to give my kids an edge other than housing location and support at home, but it doesn't seem like paying for an abode in a favorable district and helping with homework is over the line. Getting on the school board and redrawing lines to favor me definitely is.