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Originally Posted by Money2Burn
For one thing, Franken isn’t calling her a liar.
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https://www.theatlantic.com/entertai...-women/545954/
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Notions of “hysteria.” Dismissals of women’s anger as at once irrational and manipulative. Fear of—and interest in—witches and their crafts: And I’ve got no defense for it / The heat is too intense for it / What good would common sense for it do? And it has lived on, in even more recent times, in the protestations of GamerGate, and the plot of Gone Girl, and the title of Pretty Little Liars, and the trope of the gold-digger, in the notion of the femme fatale, and the paradigm of “the Madonna and the whore,” and the racist logic of the “welfare queen.” It’s in every lyric of “Blurred Lines”—and every “but look how she dresses” rebuttal, and every “if true” dismissal. As Soraya Chemaly, writing for HuffPost in 2014, put it: “If she expresses herself in a combative way in response to a hectoring lawyer or reporter, she is going to be disliked. If she is silent, she will be distrusted. If she talks too much, she is thought to be making stories up. If she is a woman of color, well, all of that on steroids plus some.”
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If true. If true. If true. In one way, certainly, it’s a fitting refrain for the America of 2017, with all its concessions to the conditional tense: alternative facts, siloed reality, a political moment that has summoned and witnessed a resurgence of the paranoid style. And yet it’s also an abdication—“moral cowardice,” the journalist Jamelle Bouie put it—and in that sense is part of a much longer story. If true is a reply, but it has in recent cases become more effectively a verb—a phrase of action, done to women, to remind them that they are doubted. If true used as a weapon. If true used as a mechanism to enforce the status quo. For years. For centuries. The woman says, This happened. The world says, If true.
No wonder so many women, for so long, have preferred silence. No wonder they have found it more tolerable to bear their experiences on their own—to keep them safely locked away, monstrous but contained—than to share them and risk the inevitable results. The economics of truth-telling have been too stark, too brute. They could speak; very likely, however, people would listen but not hear. Very likely, they would reply with excuses and questionings and punishments and shame: You probably misunderstood. Anyway, that’s just how he is. And, don’t take this the wrong way, but that was a pretty short skirt to be wearing to work. And how do we know for sure that you’re not making it all up?
He didn't explicitly call her a liar. But "I support an investigation" is basically an "if true" mentality.
The whole underlying assumption of "it's important to believe women" is that women wouldn't lie as a matter of course.
The photo is pretty clear evidence Franken already treated her in a demeaning fashion. Tweeden says he contrived the skit and then basically took advantage of the situation.
Why don't we simply believe her? His call for an investigation is just a performative, polite, historically common way to call her a liar by implication.
If he didn't do it -- say so. Letting men get away with "uh, sorry so sorry if true" then backpatting them for their restraint almost makes double victims of the women: they get practically no justice and then the entire burden is on them to prove it while the man is applauded for his graceful handling of this potentially slippery woman and her accusations.
Our civic virtues don't have to transport themselves into our private conversations and private behaviors. Al Franken might be innocent until proven guilty in the eyes of the law, but I ain't the law, his Senate colleagues ain't the law, the Democratic Party ain't the law, we can draw our own conclusions and he gets no credit from me for his posture here.