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Originally Posted by thatssosick
yeah ive realised i should stop thinking so much and just spend time with whoever i have most fun with.
self-happiness is more important than social validation so actually would rather be with a girl who im really happy with rather than a girl everyone else thinks is really hot.
This is exactly right. If you have a connection with a girl and your friends are lol'ing at you because she's not the highest quality of carnal trim, they're not really very good friends. So don't be self-conscious at all about it.
If I posted pics of all the girls I've been with, you guys probably wouldn't select my fiancee has the hottest. But she honestly the most perfect woman in the world in my eyes, even on days where she looks like hell. There comes a point where you see someone differently than the rest of the world does, and that's a really good thing.
I don't encourage trying to talk yourself into settling down either. It's something that just happens. It doesn't have to now, but you'd be foolish to pass up a chance at it.