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Originally Posted by [LiQ][DoX]
Lol the relaxing hol thing is the worst idea I've heard in my life. Going on a relaxing hol with nothing to do but think think think will never end well, you'd completely lose your mind. You'll constantly be analyzing your entire relationship/what went wrong/what she did/what you did/if you could have done something to prevent it from happening, and eventually realizing you did nothing wrong and there was nothing you could have done and it just sucks (given that you actually gave a **** about this girl). And you'll just go through this exact process over and over if you're sitting there on your little 'relaxing' holiday. People suggesting a relaxing holiday have clearly never gone through a miserable breakup where there actually used to be serious emotional attachment.
Of course now wouldn't be the greatest time to go on a bender either, but the key is to keep busy. Keep doing **** and surround yourself with people or you'll go crazy. Also go easy in the poker area for a bit.
Edit: Right, and make sure you don't do any stalking on fb/instagram/whatever, just cut ties with the girl completely.
reading this is making me happy it isn't a "miserable" breakup because I would probably be thinking all of those things nonstop
i legit think I am doing the exact opposite of this entire message so far lol ****
tinder reminds me of when you play final fantasy 7 and run around building up your HP/MP for hours (sorry i've just heard so much about it but really only used it for 10 minutes once)