oh I misread preflop action. Doesn't change much of anything but ignore all my talk about the first call pre. I thought it was same positions as first hand (open, 3b, you flat). Almost certainly still bad w/o Q suited, having the 6, and 5 or 6 people behind.
I also missed stack sizes. If you get in a main pot for $200 and then have to throw in $115 for a sidepot, it's much worse. edit: well I thought it'd be worse
Main pot:
(.30*460) - (.70*185)
138 - 129.5 = +8.5
Side pot:
(.438*115) - (.562*115)
50.37 - 64.63 = -14.26
8.50 - 14.26 =
-5.76
Did all this work (very little) and it's 3/5 of a bb difference
Thanks moni for helping me realize these silly errors.