I'm an American living in France.

It varies a lot b/c there are differing levels of how much skin was cut and thus how much "mobility" is left. Very tight circs have almost no mobility. Mine has some mobility, but nothing like an uncut. I much prefer to be well lubricated, coco oil is the GOAT for those that don't know, but never use it in conjunction with a latex condom.

The main problem for me is that it kinda breaks up the natural unfolding of sex to be like "wait, let me grab some lube for that" so usually I'll just teach my partner ways to touch sans lube that drive me crazy and avoid the lube except for pre-planned times.

I like to give and receive.

My girlfriend thinks she's bad at HJ but she's wrong.

As for my first time with legit intercourse, she had a boyfriend actually and was obv more experienced than me. I had only gotten bjs and mouth stuff until then. I was 16 and she was 16. We were driving around smoking weed and drinking beer and went to a park where we could park and did it in the car. She was on birth control so raw dogged it up and got addicted to that haha. After we did it in the car we did it again outside on the grass on top of my friends hoodie that was in the trunk.

Ended up banging her a few more times before high school ended and I haven't seen her since. I'm confident I could hit her up now and at least have a solid chance of banging her, if only I wasn't committed in a relationship

Me either lol
It's ends up being just a sporadic jerking motion; I can't really keep a good rhythm.

I wouldn't say I dislike giving a handjob, I just don't feel like I'm doing it optimally.

I actively enjoy giving head, though.

Well firstly don't worry. It's just nice that there is a naked woman doing it even halfway competently. Particularly as it tends to be extra to whatever other sex you are having. Obviously as euro I don't have the same issues as the Americans re: foreskin, but I also like to receive with lubrication. It makes it a completely different thing to doing it on my own.

I have a question, why are American masturbation metaphors so violent? I get that in the metaphors my penis is referred to as the meat, dolphin, bishop, chicken or monkey or whatever, I just don't want it my penis to be beaten, flogged, bashed, choked, spanked or in any other way rubbed out or jerked. It all sounds too painful.

Well what do you guys call it then?

Wanking.

Though in the Liverpool area they call it "knocking one out", so maybe it's not so different.

Does "wanking" have another definition no one in USA#1 knows?

If not, it's not a metaphor, and just another word for masturbating?

A girl can never be as good jacking you off as you are because she's on a delayed and incomplete feedback. While you know instantly exactly what to do at every moment - how tight, how fast, how long a stroke, etc. - for maximum enjoyment, she needs to rely on non-verbal clues that can be deceiving and to wait for you to give imperfect directs while you're distracted. On the other hand actually having a girl right there willing to do it, and presumably do other stuff as well, easily makes up for any lack in technique. I come down firmly on the "Oh my god!, there's a girl here doing sex stuff with me" as the preferred situation.

Same.

Thoroughly enjoyed that and I usually hate comedic songs.

if there's no mouth involved then forget it

they have some funny ass sexual songs/raps. havnt seen that vid in awhile.

You nailed it my friend. I couldn't have said it better myself.

I've found that the climax when someone else does it >>>>>>>>>> when I do it myself. The lead up not so much.

I always have far more orgasms with a partner than alone, because alone I'm just going to stop after one or two. In terms of intensity, the best would always be after we've already been going for a while.

I usually have more orgasms with a partner than without, because it's really hard for me to not cum when going down even if I know it's just part of foreplay

And I'm still going to want to **** that ass, whereas when I'm alone I'm fine with napping or sleeping after one slips out

What the deuce?

HND in nursing plus two years practical experience