Both virgins at the time, even though I had went to 3rd base a lot previously with this American student I had initially met in Berlin (I'm German). When she said she was gonna go down on me (in English) I had no idea what she meant lol. Which was awesome but doesn't count, right?

Anyway, back to my gf at the time who was unexperienced. I'm surprised I'm the first one to bring this up; I'm kinda big and it wouldn't work at all.
I think it was at my place but I can hardly remember it now as it was pretty uneventful. Took a few tries over a week or so and I don't remember 'that' first time either now. Maybe that's because we had sex likely in the 4 digits over a 7 year span. And the best times were certainly towards the end of that when we had broken up and other sexual partners inbetween.

Pretty standard imo. Ex sex is always great.

I was 17, she was 32 , she was my teacher at a high school i went to that i got kicked out off. ran into her at an outdoor bar in alphabet city, and it started a nice rabbit hole of sexual fetishes, god bless that woman

Sounds like the plot of a sitcom

Dammit, I say if your first time wasn't also with a virgin, and if there wasn't crying involved, it doesn't count!

First guy: he was two years younger, but had a few previous partners. He was quite well-endowed, so I'm very thankful that a few trailblazers taught him how to be gentle and patient... He knew it was my first time.

First girl: she was older and WAY more experienced (with both men and women). She didn't know that she was my first woman at the time, but was certainly aware that I was less experienced. Was almost a three way but she ended up telling her then boyfriend that he had to sleep on the couch. Lol.

So someone convinced you that you're ****ed up because in middle school some girl let you poke her for $10? Big deal.

Penthouse Forum itt.

Hehe, so I finally learn, who are all girls here

My first BF had a lot more experience, but also used to girls, who knew pretty well what and how to do. With me he was plain afraid at the beginning to hurt me. It somehow worked, but was not much fun for me. The relationship lasted for two years. The sex was just continuously bad (for me ). Thank God, it has improved with every following guy or I would be in monastery by now.

Yes I am surprised any girl continues on with sex after their first experience!

I assume he had way more experience than I did but we never discussed it. He had no idea I was a virgin. I had sex for the first time (but had done everything but in college) mostly just to get it over with, never saw the guy before and only saw him once after, and that was when he came into the MP station while I was on duty. I was 24, think he was early to mid 30s.

I was a really late bloomer. I blame church and being a giant dork. Could have gotten laid in college but was still clinging to "don't have sex until marriage."

It did hurt but only for a short time after the initial penetration.

I know, because of the crying, right? RIGHT?


...crickets...

A couple of women have told me they specifically selected a partner for their 'first time' that they intended never to see again. It seemed odd to me with my starry eyed notions of love and romance.

Was longtime gf. We had dated for a year plus before. She was Christian so I got anal the first year.

When we finally did it, while wrapping Christmas presents, she just kept saying "Oh my God." We had lots of sex that first week, mainly in a car.

That was the time I count, I had a couple of experiences like foatie earlier.

The girl I lost mine to was a Christian as well, I tried the anal angle but no dice.


Once we did have sex, it was on, did it all the time. For some reason both of our parents were cool with us sleeping over at each other's houses.

So at 16-17, my gf that was like 18months older than me would regularly sleep over at my house, in my bed.

We had sex in her church parking lot a few times.

Ya we did it at her former church parking lot too, while a quasi-friend was getting it on with a German exchange student in the back.

I'm still a virgin by DI's definition

I was the first for one who decided it was so good she had to try them all. She even invited all of us to her wedding. We occupied two big round tables (she had a thing for good sports). I went to the second wedding too, but not the third.

Well that's something we shall have to remedy, isn't it?

Is it? Your definition is penis-in-vagina, and penis in butt doesn't count

The term for maintaining your virginity by only engaging in buttsecks is called "saddlebacking."

Let us never discourage that behaviour

Oh I got it.

Still wouldn't hurt for you to do a little pinch hitting for the other team. Might be surprised to learn what kind of coins they have on their person.

Lol.


My first anything (even kiss) was with a same age girl I met a couple months after high school. She had 2 boyfriends in high school, only had sex 3 times with the first, and none with second boyfriend of almost two years. Jesus got to her!

I met her on MySpace! Lol. Anyways, she was still Jesusing pretty hard and although she wasn't a virgin anymore, that was off the table. That said I'm sure I received in excess of 300 headjobs that first year. We finally had intercourse after nearly a year, and there would be spurts of lots of it and long guilty Jesus abstinence! Finally Jesus drove her to a tiny Christian school in Kansas, over her guilt!

Sorry for assuming you didn't get it. I hate that I always look like I'm assuming the other person is daft, when really I'm just assuming I can't word good.

I do like to try everything twice. Would probably be disappointed on my death bed if I never knew what a vadge felt like.

I used to torment myself with "maybe you're straight or bi, but it's just that you put the pussy on a pedestal." I think probably I'm just gay AND put women on this special plane. But it wouldn't hurt to have experience to back that up. Couple times when I was younger, I had the opportunity to try it (with them knowing I was experimenting with the other team) but I ultimately chickened out, with the reasoning (or the excuse) being that I didn't want to risk the friendship.

Will try not to make that mistake again. But I have this thing where I feel like I need to get myself back into the shape I was in before I can prowl for strange. See, pedestal. What the heck.