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Originally Posted by Howard Treesong
This is a childish, petulant, and unproductive response. It has the potential to turn what is now a one-time dispute into a longer-term, low-level fight. That is a poor way to manage a career. It is perfectly reasonable to decide to eat the 200 in this situation, but if you do, the best path is to forget about it. Decisions about future conferences and the like should then be made on their own merits, with an eye to protecting yourself from administrative/bureaucratic issues like this.
Picking a fight with corporate or administrative bureaucracy is almost never productive.
I agree with you insofar as each future decision should be made case-by-case. I phrased my post more extremely than I'd actually handle it because I was putting myself emotionally into BA's shoes and he seems very pissed off.
My mindset in the future would be defaulting to refusing anything that's voluntary unless I have a really good reason to participate. I think that's the way to go because it's obvious that BA's agency doesn't value him and they're not willing to treat him fairly even in reference to his colleagues who were going to vacation in Charleston. Given those facts, it's not worth it for him to go the extra mile for the agency unless there's a clear benefit to him and they can guarantee him that they won't screw him over like they did in the Columbus situation.
EDIT to add: I'm in no way advocating "picking a fight." The conversation would be, "Can you go to this conference? It's not mandatory." "Sorry, but given what happened last time I have to decline." Just a polite decline, not a fight at all.
I also agree with you that the agency shouldn't be docking him PTO and that it's fine that it's not refunding the $200. (Furthermore, in general, I agree wholeheartedly with the person who said he gambled and lost when it came to mixing business with pleasure and for that reason it's pretty much entirely on him if something goes wrong.) But if the agency truly valued BA and wanted to cultivate goodwill with him, it'd be refunding both the PTO and the $200.
Last edited by Rapini; 09-28-2017 at 09:09 AM.