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Originally Posted by borg23
it's not morally wrong or illegal to bring you a refill without you asking for it you whack job.
IT SURE IS and NO I am not whack job, YOU ARE for being a CONTROLLING person. I wouldn't control what you wanted if I served you, don't do it to me.
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most people want the same drink on a refill.
You don't go by majority because NOT EVERYONE WILL. It doesn't matter if "MOST" people anything. You aren't serving most people every single time, you are serving DIFFERENT people that like DIFFERENT things.
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if the waiter sees a near empty cup and they're by the soda machine they'll just bring one.it's more efficient that way
NO, it's not more efficient if the customer doesn't want it. Also, it's being ********LAZY********** to come to my table to ask if I want more. Why want the full 20% if you don't want to do the FULL JOB of asking me like you are SUPPOSED to be, huh?
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(assuming they aren't dealing with a lunatic who will flip out at such a thing)
If I send you back if you were my server, you'd be pissed, so don't act like it's just me that is mad about things. Servers flip out too and you know it. It's not being a lunatic, it's being NORMAL to be pissed that you did something for nothing just as I am pissed that my time got wasted I am paying for in the tip.
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a normal person says "no thank you" if they don't want it
NO, a normal person wouldn't be ORDERING for me in the FIRST PLACE. A normal server doesn't order for a stranger. I don't even let my husband order for me even much less a stranger.
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or "can i have x instead of y"
That's what I ask DUMMY. The thing is, they should be saying they are sorry for getting my order wrong. They assumed and were wrong. They should be nice enough to apologize just as when they bring me my refill I do want I say "thank you." It's called common decency and respect.
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if they don't want a refill of the same drink. they don't go crazy over something some meaningless and innocent.
It's only meaningless to you, because it's not your hard earned money being wasted on the time you are paying for called service.
HOW is it innocent to TELL SOMEONE ELSE HOW TO SPEND THEIR TIP MONEY AND WHAT THEY WANT TO DRINK, HUH??? That's a control freak, NOT being innocent.
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seriously please show me the law where it is illegal for a waiter to bring me a coke without me asking for a coke.
you won't because you can't.
It is illegal since it's not your tip money to spend, that's how.
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you also have no clue what "morally wrong" means if you think bringing someone a refil or glass of water is morally wrong.
It's morally wrong to *******ORDER************ for someone else DUMMY without their PERMISSION OR CONSENT, especially considering the person PAYING a tip is the person that OWNS the service, NOT my server.
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maybe the waiter should just seat you at a completely empty table and you should have to ask for every single item you want to be placed at the table. no menu,napkin,knife,fork,spoon,place mat, salt,pepper etc without you specifically requesting it.
NO, because that stuff is already there already and the menu the hostess gives you and some places the hostess gives you utensils. So NO, you are wrong.
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btw it is morally wrong to steal parking spaces, although not illegal.
I haven't stolen something since that person didn't *OWN* it to begin with since they didn't actually *PAY* for it.