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Originally Posted by Rexx14
What realistic chance do you think that after you speaking to him he will suddenly decide to lose weight? Do you think he has had family members/doctors in the past speak to him about his weight?
1. Any non-zero increase in that chance is fine by me. Even if I only bump it from 1% to 2%, that's still a 100% increase.
2. Definitely, assuming he had a physical in the last year.
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Originally Posted by goofball
I think if he agrees then you suggest specific actions right then before he has a chance to let time go by without him doing anything.
Yeah my default is going to be mfp unless I come up with something better. He's not the type to go for a prop bet.
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Originally Posted by amead
Do you honestly think a 400+ pound guy is so close to starting an unbelievably difficult change to his entire lifestyle that a casual mention of being fat by a friend is going to jump start him into action
I don't know where he is. I do know he's succeeded once before, so he has it in him to solve this. Getting a little push from someone he knows cares about him may be useless, but it may also help. I don't think it's likely to hurt much, if any. He might be right on the edge and just needs a small bit of encouragement. What if I could be that encouragement but I don't say anything?
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Originally Posted by revots33
Guy is in his 40s - any wife/kids?
No kids, long term gf he lives with. She's normal weight.