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Originally Posted by Henry17
I started off on the side of no loan but as pieces of extra information come in I switched to loan or end friendship. You can't live a pseudo-baller life and then not help out a friend who needs money -- then again you can't live a baller life and be in debt to dad either but that doesn't seem to stop OP. Once you start blowing large amounts of money indiscriminately on stuff the only way to say no is if you think the guy is a complete loser which then opens up the question of why have you remained friends with someone who you think is a complete loser.
The co-op board of the building I bought an apartment in requires a 50% down payment. This is not unusual in Manhattan in nice neighborhoods. The apartment also needed a lot of work when we bought it, and that was reflected in the purchase price. My parents were very supportive, and we are making regular interest payments. My wife and I both work like dogs and make good incomes, thereby making us qualified to service the loan.
Loaning money with interest to your son to help him and his wife buy and repair a nice home for them and their young daughter is a bit different than giving $10 grand with no job, no income, and no life plan to go blow in South America on God knows what. If you don't think so then we will agree to disagree.