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Originally Posted by prohornblower
Just curious, since you didn't make mention. I assume you didn't bring beer. Did you drink beer that was there?
Anyway, I don't think it's a big deal that you took it to go since it was unopened. A bit weird, but no biggy.
Let me also ask you this: If you had brought the salsa from your own cabinet, would you have been less likely to take it home? I get the feeling since you already knew you had to replace it for your mom that you figured "wtf, it's still here...I'm taking it back to my mom". Yes, no?
In general though it's like a $3.50 item. In general it's not worth the risk of being "caught" and being made to look foolish (publicly or privately). Yes, people would be stupid to call you out on taking an unopened can home that you brought but guess what, people are stupid. Unfortunately we are all riding on this rock together and not everybody is going to understand your reasoning all the time.
No I don't drink alcohol in general. I didn't drink there.
I really don't know what I would have done if it was my own salsa. It was more a matter of it being needed in place A, and might not be needed in place B. As far as it being a $3.50 item, it is actually a $1 item. I don't care about the money, whether it was $1 or $5. I had this visual in my head of them having it in the house and being like "we don't eat this cheap salsa". Then just throwing it away or having it in the pantry sitting for ages.
The not letting things waste is like an OCD thing. Like I was at a restaurant and I got noodles. They weren't tasty, and the serving was big (like for 2-3 people). So I took the leftovers home and ate it, even though I don't enjoy the food. I wasn't trying to save money by not buying other food, but just don't like the idea of something with some use going into the trash.
If the host was a good friend, I would have just asked. I like to think I'm close enough with my good friends where I can ask these questions and it not be awkward. However since I had only been out one time with the host, I didn't know him well enough.
From DD's post, I realize its better to just leave it there. Its more of a gesture and about the impression I make. I just have to overcome these obsessive worries over little things. I also like the idea of calling ahead.
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Also your dad is crazy and I think its awesome you can love him. My dad is quirky in some ways and I have a very strong love-hate relationship with him. He's worse than quirky and wierd though, but I don't wanna get into it.