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Originally Posted by culs20041
There are different forms of rape. I think I have always indicated here that it was a rape and that the defendants should be punished to the fullest extent of the law. Despite your stretch, I have always recognized that digitally penetrating a passed out girl is rape
Yes, thank you, my point isn't that you don't think it's wrong. You just think it's less serious than penis-in-vagina rape and have repeatedly objected to all the attention it's getting.
I do accept that academically you recognize they are both in the space at the 'rape' end of the spectrum. I do not think you feel it. I think this on account of your constant objections to the media coverage (just like Lee!) which has spent a great deal of energy on exposing the very mindset that thinks there is a meaningful moral or criminal difference between putting your penis in a victim's vagina or putting it in her mouth, because it is THAT mindset that led
- the accused
- their coaches, parents and family members
- assorted Stuebenvillains and internet weirdos
...to mock, doubt, disregard, slut-shame and victim blame their way out of this.
You present yourself as a victim of media persecution, rather than saying your town looks bad to the media because its residents do bad things.
Edit, it's like you get hung up on the mechanics as a means by which to judge how rapey it was; you might have nothing but good intentions in doing so but you must recognize that the only other people who do this are those who put it on the same moral plane as shoplifting, it's wrong but not so serious, that it's even a known risk, and so on, and think people are making too much of it -- maybe they have their facts wrong or something.
Last edited by Poker Reference; 03-19-2013 at 05:53 PM.