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Originally Posted by Rebelp
Hi I have been struggling with the hard to beat combination of alcoholism depression and grief. Hearing your wife whisper "I'm terrified " when she is dying of cancer is not easy to come to terms with.My family have just found out just how ill I am and are trying to sort out a program to get me through this . Wish me luck
I am so sorry for what you are going through and wish you all the luck. If you choose to take this route, I can tell you that in AA you will find people who will love you and support you and listen to absolutely anything and everything you want or need to say. I hope you will find some relief.
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Originally Posted by ElSapo
I recently completed a court-ordered alcohol abuse evaluation (two or three, really, but the third one didn't recommend treatment). .... So that was six months of sessions and doctors and counselors and groups, resulting from a dwi.
The last doctor I saw (psychiatrist specializing in substance abuse) told me something that I didn't really agree with, but i'd like to know what others think: He told me there are essentially three different kinds of drinkers: Social, Problem and Alcoholic. And he said a problem drinker could revert back to a social drinker, but it was harder/or not possible for an alcoholic to do that.
That seems a little too simplified to ring true, but does it sound right to ppl in this thread?
Like Chris said, it's an over-simplification, but basically accurate. To add to what he said, an alcoholic is not just someone who "doesn't need more time, a better attitude, medication or whatever, he needs to stay well away from alcohol", it's someone who
very well knows all that and still drinks again anyway (which sounds like it describes the guy in his story). A problem drinker might really need to stop altogether because of the consequences involved, and then they do so and their life gets better because alcohol was the problem. IMO when an alcoholic stops drinking without additional support, his life gets worse because alcohol wasn't really the problem - the problem was alcoholism. Take away the alcohol and you still need to treat the ism.