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I definitely don't think that any/all alcohol use is bad. Plenty of people drink, even to excess, and it's not a big deal.
Why have you and your wife talked about quitting? It sounds like the idea must have occurred to you prior to reading this thread.
It's a lot of calories and we just both generally understand it is unhealthy. Like you shouldn't eat sweets in excess often, you shouldn't drink alcohol in excess often.
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Originally Posted by gregorio
NonPareil, have you and your wife tried cutting back, and maybe drinking only one evening on the weekend, or having just one bottle of wine, or something like that? Most people try cutting back before they try to quit. Some people can do it, but many find there's always a reason why it's okay to drink tonight because X, or why next week is a better week to start cutting back because Y. In that case, you really have to quit, at least temporarily. But maybe you'll be able to just cut back and drink normal levels like your friends. You'll never know until you try.
Sure, and we've not drank on weekend days (this is rare however) and truly we do it because it's fun. I guess it worries me that I look forward to it.
Also, I kind of just accept that it is harmful to me down the road but I think I accept the consequences for the enjoyment it brings.
I mean Gregorio, I think basically you are telling me I need to quit. Obviously, I respect that opinion that is why I'm posting. I'm just trying to learn where I stand while it isn't out of control (like I said I really don't feel like I have a problem at all but I'm certainly open to the idea I'm very wrong).
I think I could not drink at all for an extended period but what would that teach me? I certainly want to be able to drink, but this thread is very much confusing me. I still am having a hard time seeing where anyone that drinks isn't classified as having a problem to some degree.
I guess I'm entertaining the idea that this could be a problem down the road, but I was looking for opinions on this. Like Gregorio, you suggest I should try cutting back, and if I do that successfully, then what? Am I ever allowed to drink to excess on occasion etc.