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Originally Posted by JudgeHoldem
I’m not sure I’m ready to quit entirely but my body telling me to slow tf down. I’m usually good for 2-4 decent pours of bourbon/ rye a night. Weekend is more like 6-10. Well, a few weeks ago I was on the toilet and saw actual blood in the bowl. I’m not talking just a few drops I mean it look like i **** pure blood. I am pretty sure I had bad stomach cramps that previous night too.
Well today I was peeing out my butt and feeling like **** again with the cramps in stomach . I should see a doctor but I’m just gonna lay off alcohol completely and limit myself to 2 pours a day once this gets back to normal.
Not trying to be funny just honest but it’s ok to laugh or call me a dumbass. I need to check myself
I remember the first time I **** blood. It's a wake up call at first. Then it happens a few times and you are still alive, so how bad could it be? Alcohol has a way of making everything sort of okay. You set new limits and then crash through them and feel ****ty at first then just get used to often being in a mild state of generalized shame or remorse. The human mind and body is incredibly adaptable. Plus, that all goes away once you get a few back in you. F***ing body's stupid tolerance though, it always takes a couple more than it used to. But then you learn that that's not the case if you don't eat much, which isn't a big deal cuz you really don't have much of an appetite anyways.
I don't miss that struggle, but there's no way I would've given up my most beloved companion and comforter without realizing that at some point i crossed a line of no return. At times I could control it, and at times I did enjoy it, but never could I do both simultaneously anymore.
I hope you are successful in your attempts to self-regulate. I'd suggest writing down a goal and being objective in your evaluation of your success in meeting that. If a relative amount you'd like to keep yourself to only exists in your mind, it inevitably becomes a moving target that caters to the behavior that your mind desires and is influenced by subtle underlying drives for repeating biochemical reward pathways that are difficult if not impossible to simply will yourself out of.
Last edited by EvanWilliams; 01-30-2018 at 01:58 PM.