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cardsharkk04, it sounds like you probably know it's a problem. Unfortunately imo someone if your position probably won't/can't really change when continuing to drink is still a reasonable option. If your pattern follows mine, you'll go from only feeling "good" when drunk, to actually feeling WORSE when drunk, and much much much worse in the aftermath. And then the road narrows and there are only a couple of options left. And hopefully you'll remember then that sobriety really is an actual option.
Nobody can diagnose somebody else as an alcoholic, but in my experience "I'm the type of person that doesn't blackout much" is not the kind of thing a normal drinker says. FYI.
All of this. Your post reads like you already know it's a problem and are looking for confirmation. Perfectly possible you will learn to control your drinking, but there are several huge red flags in your post.
My opinions on alcohol are complex, but one thing that I'm absolutely certain about is that alcohol is incapable of solving problems in the long term, it's only capable of creating them. Using alcohol to "solve" problems is a certain ticket to misery. So if it's true that you "feel like an empty shell" when not drinking, you should start thinking about solutions to that which don't involve drugs. Not everyone goes through life feeling that way. Our brains are not fixed, they are changeable.
You've painted this dilemma where you have a choice between either drinking or not enjoying life as much, but it's a false choice. Billions of people live drinking little or no alcohol and many of them live full and joyful lives. You're not fundamentally different to those people. The more you habituate your brain to the idea that your choice is between alcohol and BOREDOM, the more true it will become and the harder the road back gets.