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Partner giving up smoking. How can I help? Partner giving up smoking. How can I help?

02-04-2018 , 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted by NoQuarter
Buy his prescription of Chantix for 3 months ($350-$400/month), could be <3 mths depending.

Easy game

Signed,
Chantix Survivor

... 2 years smokeless (cept for medical marijuana) best thing I ever did. I can literally smell someone peeling an orange in another room now and can taste stuff.


P.S. Dreams were awesome, had no more suicide thoughts than normal, never beat anyone or felt the urge to do so... shorter on patience maybe
Wow that's what you pay in USA #1 for Chantix??

I paid 20 GBP for the 3 month course and I've been off cigs for nearly 4 years as a result.

Agree the dreams were pretty funky.

Rexx, I was a terrible smoker and no one ever thought I could quit. Your bf should seriously consider Chantix/Champix.
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02-04-2018 , 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Rexx14

I'm not sure he would appreciate messages regarding quitting being sent to him but it's something to consider. Thanks for your POV.

Correct. If you love him don't drive him bat**** with messages. Good call.

Swedish snus does the trick for me. It's like dip, but you don't spit.

https://generalsnus.com/m/WhatIsSnus/
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02-04-2018 , 06:34 PM
BJ's would certainly help, to the degree can be argued
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02-04-2018 , 10:50 PM
I'm surprised it took until post #28 for someone to mention fellatio.

Def have him replace the addiction with something fun and new that he can have a genuine interest in.
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02-04-2018 , 11:02 PM
Cutting back is okay I guess, but ultimately everyone has to quit cold turkey. One day you're doing nicotine in some form and the next day you're not. I was able to quit smoking and got hooked on nicotine lozenges instead. That's a good first step IMO.

If you can give up all nicotine for 72 hours, your blood will likely test negative for nicotine. Quitting for three days was by far the hardest part of the process for me. If he can give it up for three days, he needs to accept that he has basically beaten the addiction. Any cravings from then on are psychological. So he needs to accept victory and declare himself a non-smoker after three days. And don't get discouraged if you fail. Keep trying.
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02-05-2018 , 05:37 PM
Generic Wellbutrin is a lot cheaper than that other stuff they mentioned up there. They had me taking it a long time, not for smoking it didn't have many side effects except made me hyper as **** to start with.
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02-05-2018 , 06:24 PM
Chantix +1000000
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02-05-2018 , 06:53 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by NoQuarter
Buy his prescription of Chantix for 3 months ($350-$400/month), could be <3 mths depending.

Easy game

Signed,
Chantix Survivor

... 2 years smokeless (cept for medical marijuana) best thing I ever did. I can literally smell someone peeling an orange in another room now and can taste stuff.


P.S. Dreams were awesome, had no more suicide thoughts than normal, never beat anyone or felt the urge to do so... shorter on patience maybe
I'm hoping things like increased sense of smell and taste will help spur him on.

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Originally Posted by CHRONICFEVER
Another great thing to do while going through smoking withdrawals is to constantly stay busy , I recall cleaning out the apartment and doing all kinds of errands just to keep myself busy tried to play as much sports as possible too. I mean he has to want to quit too else it's easy to give in to the urge of going back like
-more stamina in bed
-not smelling like ****
- for sake of the kids if you have any
Etc....

One thing my wife used to do when I smoked would be to put a picture of her with our son on my pack of smokes everyday and write something different on it everyday while I was trying to quit
Definitely think getting him back into sport would increase his chances staying off the cigs.

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Originally Posted by sumey
Wow that's what you pay in USA #1 for Chantix??

I paid 20 GBP for the 3 month course and I've been off cigs for nearly 4 years as a result.

Agree the dreams were pretty funky.

Rexx, I was a terrible smoker and no one ever thought I could quit. Your bf should seriously consider Chantix/Champix.
Thanks for responding Sumey. I will address Chantix down the bottom as so many people have recommended it.

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Originally Posted by ChipWrecked
Correct. If you love him don't drive him bat**** with messages. Good call.

Swedish snus does the trick for me. It's like dip, but you don't spit.

https://generalsnus.com/m/WhatIsSnus/
Yes lol I am pretty sure he would come home unhappy with me if I began doing that. The snus looks interesting.

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Originally Posted by p2 dog, p2
BJ's would certainly help, to the degree can be argued
I would be willing to consider this if someone can show me studies that indicate it's helpful to the process lol.

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Originally Posted by All-inMcLovin
I'm surprised it took until post #28 for someone to mention fellatio.

Def have him replace the addiction with something fun and new that he can have a genuine interest in.
Definitely think the new interest thing is a good idea

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Originally Posted by Chippa58
Cutting back is okay I guess, but ultimately everyone has to quit cold turkey. One day you're doing nicotine in some form and the next day you're not. I was able to quit smoking and got hooked on nicotine lozenges instead. That's a good first step IMO.

If you can give up all nicotine for 72 hours, your blood will likely test negative for nicotine. Quitting for three days was by far the hardest part of the process for me. If he can give it up for three days, he needs to accept that he has basically beaten the addiction. Any cravings from then on are psychological. So he needs to accept victory and declare himself a non-smoker after three days. And don't get discouraged if you fail. Keep trying.
I agree. I would prefer he just gives up cold turkey but it's his journey and he needs to decide how to do it. It is slightly worrying as it seems like a bit of an indicator that he isn't really ready to give up and is delaying it as long as he can. If that's the case I will just have to accept it and try and consider it a win that he has at least cut down and possibly will be ready later.

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Originally Posted by unlucky4me
Generic Wellbutrin is a lot cheaper than that other stuff they mentioned up there. They had me taking it a long time, not for smoking it didn't have many side effects except made me hyper as **** to start with.
I'll check it out, thanks.

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Originally Posted by Matt Henderson
Chantix +1000000
Chantix seems to be a clear frontrunner in giving up smoking. I spoke to him in regards to it after I had done a little bit of research on it. It's not a definite no as we haven't researched it fully but one concern that stood out was possible psychological problems from the drug. My partner has no history of mental health issues but there is some family history of reasonably serious mental health illness. So yeah idk. Need to look into it more.

Thanks so much to everyone for responding. It's really reassuring hearing from people who have successfully quit and POV from people trying to quit.
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11-07-2018 , 07:23 PM
Just a quick update. My bf went cold turkey and has been off them for a month now so fingers crossed it sticks. Thanks again to everyone who contributed.
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11-07-2018 , 08:05 PM
you guys should have some wine to celebrate
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11-07-2018 , 08:17 PM
Once he reaches the 3 month mark we will celebrate with copious wine, coke and lollies!
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11-07-2018 , 09:07 PM
Are lollies just lollypops or some kind of Aussie candy that adults consume?
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11-07-2018 , 10:32 PM
Lollies are just candy. Does candy include little chocolate treats and jubes? For example my mum would say I could buy some lollies from the corner shop and it covered things like caramel buds, jubes, bananas etc. Kids eat lollies Greg, they aren't some X rated food for adults that will ruin your search history.
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11-07-2018 , 10:37 PM
Yes but adults don't consume lollipops, which is what the rest of the world means by lollie. I just figured you were some freak who walked around sucking on lollipops all day like you were on ecstasy.
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Originally Posted by Rexx14
Greg, they aren't some X rated food for adults that will ruin your search history.
Spoiler:
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11-07-2018 , 10:43 PM
Screw the rest of the world! I'm pretty sure you can get drug lollipops but I have no idea what the terminology is. I'm a bit out of the loop in regards to current drug speak. Choof or choofing is my favourite Aussie drug slang.

Spoiler:
I told you it wouldn't ruin it. You should be thanking me!
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11-07-2018 , 11:04 PM
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11-07-2018 , 11:09 PM
Wow there are a lot of schoolhouse rocks I've never seen. I've got I'm Just a Bill, Conjunction Junction and Interplanet Janet as top 3. Meh, Janet not nearly as good as I remembered.
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11-07-2018 , 11:16 PM
To coincide with the 30th anniversary, Walt Disney released a VHS in 2002 featuring the Top 25 songs of the series. The countdown, which was succeeded by "I'm Gonna Send Your Vote to College", ran as follows, in reverse order:
  1. "Conjunction Junction"
  2. "I'm Just A Bill"
  3. "Lolly, Lolly, Lolly, Get Your Adverbs Here"
  4. "Electricity, Electricity"
  5. "Interjections!"
  6. "The Preamble
  7. "Three Is a Magic Number"
  8. "Interplanet Janet"
  9. "A Noun Is a Person, Place, or Thing"
  10. "The Shot Heard 'Round The World
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11-07-2018 , 11:30 PM
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11-07-2018 , 11:33 PM
I think Conjunction Junction will always be my favorite.

"Hooking up words, and phrases, and clauses like..."
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11-07-2018 , 11:37 PM
"I got And, But , and Or...they'll get you pretty far."
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11-07-2018 , 11:38 PM
"Milk and honey, bread and butter, peas and rice, hey that's nice!"
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11-08-2018 , 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Rexx14
Lollies are just candy. Does candy include little chocolate treats and jubes? For example my mum would say I could buy some lollies from the corner shop and it covered things like caramel buds, jubes, bananas etc. Kids eat lollies Greg, they aren't some X rated food for adults that will ruin your search history.
Dafuq are jubes? Sounds like jewfro, only lower.

And yeah, in USA#! lolly isn't really used, but if it were it would be short for lollipop, which is hard candy on a stick.
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11-08-2018 , 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Garick
Dafuq are jubes?
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Originally Posted by Tuma
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11-08-2018 , 12:32 AM
Jube short for jelly cube??
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