LKJ,
Pfffffff!!!!!!!!!!
Ha! See! You don't even need to write a sentence! You can totally convey what do you want to convey solely with exclamation points and smileys!
Naaaaa..... On the serious note, I would say that exclamanation points are there for a reason. And if I want to convey an emotion, like a special gratitude or being upset I am so gonna use them. And if men think that showing an emotion is soo uncool, it is their problem.