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Originally Posted by jmakin
Lol the problem isn't him, it's her. And the therapists realize this and that it'll never work - not because there's anything wrong with him.
I mean, he certainly has his flaws, but every post he's made here has seemed completely reasonable and rational (discounting the pull out stuff) and her **** has seemed borderline/outrightly abusive. I don't really get the flak he takes here. Breaking up with someone like MLY is very hard - there's the manipulation, the blackmail, the threats. It's easier to just stay in it.
Plus despite MLY's claims i think it's pretty damn obvious he cares a great deal about her and the child. She just wants to make him into something he isn't, which is wrong.
Yes, the main problem is her, that has been established. Why is he still with her as a "BF" when he won't even take her to his family events? Because to him, she is a **** buddy with a kid. She needs to realize that and separate code from her child, which we all know will never happen. He may care for her child, but he does NOT care for her in the way she wants.