I'm not certain, but I think that's only if you're advocating for suicide or telling someone to die specifically in a fire that includes grease in it.

Interesting proposal. Here's how I think you might be able to get what you want and better yourself in the process.

Select a respected member of the OOT community you trust. That person can be the person to whom you provide proof that:
(1) you've ended your relationship with code3; and
(2) you're in therapy on an ongoing basis.

Once you've done that, then maybe OOT would agree not to talk about you anymore as long as you don't post in OOT anymore.

Okay I copy and pasted the wrong one but that works too.

Best idear ever! I'm in. Prove (1) or (2) and I'm in agreement.

So Larry called me a Trainwreck and compared me to Babs and said I would get the same treatment as him.

I'm not a Trainwreck at all. So what I have bipolar and my relationship isn't great. I'm not an addict, a scumbag, a scammer, living off other people, or hurting anyone.
I actually have a pretty badass life despite a ****ty childhood. I have a wonderful daughter, a great career, I'm completely independent and self sufficient. I'm not addicted to anything other than ciggerrets. I haven't been homeless since high school. I'm a good caring person. All of this despite having a mental disorder and being thrown to the wolves as a child.

I'd like to see some of you suffer some extreme trauma, have bipolar, take care of yourself as a child, live in your car as a teenager and see how well you do.

I'm not a Trainwreck, I'm a badass.

I feel bad for all the people who have to talk bad about me on here to make themselves feel better about their own miserable lives.

Someone please insert some words with pics "I'm a survivor" meme

The person you described in this post doesn't seem like she should feel the need to settle for a terrible relationship that makes her miserable. And yet...

And everyone talks about how I make terrible life decisions.
Really? How many excellent decisions do you think I've made to be able to have the life I have now from where I started. How much grit and self motivation and preserverence​ do y'all think it took? I've done a lot of right things in my life and I've done nothing but work hard every single day of my life to improve myself and my circumstances. I've put in more work and dealt with and resolved more circumstances and problems than most of you will face in your life times.

Trainwreck.....please

FWIW MLY, I agree that under the circumstances you've done well, but my last post still stands. Trying to convince us to respect you more rings hollow when you demonstrate little respect for yourself through your actions.

M,

No one is criticizing you for working your way through an extremely difficult childhood. Most people can't relate to what you went through then, that's true. But no one is advising you on that, it already happened. They're talking about your current decisions which are objectively terrible.

MYLT would crash her car even worse just to stop someone else from getting attention.

I had a ****ty childhood. I was neglected as a child, and when we were without food I used to have to go around school at lunch and beg for weeks at a time. I weighed 90 lbs in 10th grade at 5'10". my family wasn't even poor, my mom was just a POS addict that cared about herself more than us (hmm sound familiar) and my dad was ill. I have bipolar disorder among other things. I have lived in my car after getting kicked out at 19 while making min wage part time. I smoke cigeretts, but that's more of a recent thing. I still have my mental issues, but I am kicking ass in life. I'm not the only one, and you certainly are NOT some special snowflake. Stop using your past to make excuses about the present.

I don't have a kid, I'll give you that, but I don't believe in ******ed "birth control" measures like pulling out.

Lots of people here have had ****ty lives and turned out fine. I would defiantly not put you in that category. You are NOT fine. When you come to, read some of the posts you've made in the last few days. And seek a therapist, a good one.

Stop lying to yourself. You're a scummy pos who never takes responsibility for your actions. You blame everyone else for everything that goes on in your life. Nothing is ever your fault. You constantly **** up even the most basic things in life by making the most bonehead decisions possible. You constantly put yourself above your daughter. You are an attention whore who makes everything about you. Always. It's amazing to me you're even still allowed to post here. You should've been banned long long ago as every thread you post in turns toxic almost immediately. You couldn't even keep your H&F thread about H&F. You provide nothing other than being OOT's dancing monkey.

So yes, you are indeed a ****ing trainwreck. Accept it.

It's like that old cliche: I'm so happy I could shoot you in the face.

Lolol ec. I'm on the other end of the spectrum from a POS person. You on the other hand....
You and posters like you make threads I post in toxic...Just look at your post.
Ill post something completely normal and here you and the others come to spew your garbarge.

As evident by how smoothly all your prop bets have gone. You just don't get it. How do you not see that nobody gets along with you? Everyone you are in constant contact with(bosses, coworkers, family members, even the love of your life(code, not ciguretes and cheeseburgers))can only handle being around you for a limited time. But I'm sure that's because they're all intimidated by your awesomeness.

I sincerely hope one day you get the help you need and it helps you quit being such a worthless, summy, POS.

Took quite a while longer than I expected.

That would be a huge blow to the entertainment value of OOT, but I don't think it is the worst suggestion in the world.

Could be considered grounds for banishment imo.

Quite the mature five-year-old, eh? But not quite so mature that you can't use her to try to manipulate others.

jmakin spewing truth-nuggets in this post.

Instead of that, perhaps ask yourself why that only happens to you. When you figure out the answer to that, then perhaps you can take actions to prevent it without begging someone else to solve that problem for you.

I know. Forum wise he is OK.

He does string her along though and enables her behavior. It is sad. He should be the one ending it, but he is so ****ing lazy and just wants to get laid once a week so he keeps the charade up.

3 therapists have told her to lose him (per one of her posts in her H&F thread), so she doesn't want to change therapists again for fear they will tell her the same. Guess what MLY, YES, the 4th, 5th,6th, therapist will tell you the SAME THING!

Countless posters here have also told you the same thing. Lose Code and work on therapy.

Code would be fine if he weren't taking part in stringing along her kid. He could have walked away for the kid's sake a long time ago. But he's played along in MLYLT's emotional blackmail.

Do you really think that Code is any less needy than MLY? I don't buy the laziness thing.

Lol the problem isn't him, it's her. And the therapists realize this and that it'll never work - not because there's anything wrong with him.

I mean, he certainly has his flaws, but every post he's made here has seemed completely reasonable and rational (discounting the pull out stuff) and her **** has seemed borderline/outrightly abusive. I don't really get the flak he takes here. Breaking up with someone like MLY is very hard - there's the manipulation, the blackmail, the threats. It's easier to just stay in it.

Plus despite MLY's claims i think it's pretty damn obvious he cares a great deal about her and the child. She just wants to make him into something he isn't, which is wrong.

Jmakin, you are talking out of your ass again. You have no idea who I am. Blackmail, manipulation, threats lol. You are projecting some horrible experience you had again.

Man I dont know about ice cream, but I'm really having a craving for an egg mcmuffin with some *smuckers squeeze strawberry jelly* smothered all over it!

I can't be the only one, can I?

Agreed. This also depends on where the truth lies. Who is actually feeding the child the lies? I bet MLY.

If code promised to MLY or the child he would be at an event, then backed out, he is the POS.

If MLY keeps promising her child that code will be at her events, with no guarantees, then she is the POS.

Either way, the child suffers. Disgusting.

You literally threatened to shoot him with a gun. Multiple times. Are you actually ******ed?

That's not even to mention how you use your child to manipulate him, which is so disgusting that I can't even put into words how repulsive I find you for it