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Originally Posted by Montecore
We've been trying to help you for multiple years, with little progress on a lot of the extremely basic issues that could help you specifically with weight loss (scheduling shopping and meal prepping time, learning and internalizing about the calorie and macro counts of different kinds of food, using that knowledge to make healthier choices when you can't eat food you've prepared, planning and executing a fitness program). We've encouraged you constantly to seek professional hello with your mental issues. If all you're taking from this is that we will no longer allow you to blog a magic show in our forum for your own amusement while constantly ignoring and trolling well intentioned responders, then there's not much more to say on the matter. If you do decide to leave the forum, I do wish you luck, though.
She never wanted help. She wanted attention.
Attention is a component of help. You can't help someone without giving them attention. She pretended to want help in order to get attention.
Of course she made little progress. Making progress would reduce the amount of help she was receiving, which would mean reducing the amount of attention. Since her goal was to maximize attention, that meant maximizing help, which required making little progress.
H&F is a wonderful place full of lots of helpful, selfless people who are very giving of their time and energy. She took advantage of that and preyed on you guys for a long time. Now you are finally waking up and realizing what's been happening. She'll now either abuse the second chance you offered, or find a new place to generate the attention she self-medicates with. Either way, the show must go on.