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Originally Posted by DodgerIrish
Def the one you want, not the one that sticks around.
It's funny, you've really been in control this whole time. code is going to hate how this all plays out, you'll show him.
He was absolutely the one I wanted sexually. That's how it started and my plan/intentions was to just have him as my sex partner for a long time as I wasn't looking for a relationship. It just happened to turn into a relationship and that's when things went South I guess. I fell in love, he sorta fell in love then wasn't and it's been **** show ever since. sigh
Next go round I guess I should hold out on sex and find someone that matches me emotionally and intellectually....and keep my fingers crossed he has a good dick. Uggh nah, that just seems like a lot of unnecessary time investment and attachment if I end up not liking the sex.
Maybe I could just find out about the sex right away, then carry on making sure he is the right match in other areas and cut off the sex until I know.