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02-12-2018 , 02:02 AM
M,

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
The blog was supposed to just be positive, but everyone turned it sour for me by just making fun of me so Im not really interested in posting there.
You have an H&F thread with only supportive people in it.

Make a rule for your blog thread that only those H&F supporters can post there.

You have full control over both threads.

No reason for either of your threads to be turned sour or have anything in them you don't want.
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02-12-2018 , 02:05 AM
No I meant you post it there, not here. I'm not going to delete anything. And no suicides.
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02-12-2018 , 02:08 AM
M,

Or post in the H&F LC thread if you want it to a broader audience.

But that's what you need to decide.

Broader audience where people write whatever they want, or your threads where you get to decide the type of responses you get.
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02-12-2018 , 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
M,

Or post in the H&F LC thread
Nope
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02-12-2018 , 02:31 AM
Maybe there should be a sub-forum MLYF, kinda like EDF?
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02-12-2018 , 02:34 AM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
M,

Or post in the H&F LC thread
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Originally Posted by Aidan
Nope
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02-12-2018 , 02:41 AM
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02-12-2018 , 03:49 AM
MLY, you need a therapist. I've made it mandatory for employees who are less basket-case than you before and when it didn't work (honestly, usually didn't), I fired them.
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02-12-2018 , 04:03 AM
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Originally Posted by jmakin
Loco strikes me as a complete moron


Do you even go to Sephora brah?
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02-12-2018 , 04:53 AM
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Originally Posted by grizy
MLY, you need a therapist.
If only there had been someone who'd mentioned this to her before.

MLYLT,

Keep seeing your therapist and keep taking your meds.
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02-12-2018 , 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Land O Lakes
Maybe there should be a sub-forum MLYF, kinda like EDF?
This isn't the worst idea. I could see there being a whole bunch of active threads at least.
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02-12-2018 , 03:24 PM
Just give her EDF. He's basically her gimmick account at this point.
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02-12-2018 , 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Land O Lakes
Maybe there should be a sub-forum MLYF, kinda like EDF?
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Originally Posted by Tuma
This isn't the worst idea. I could see there being a whole bunch of active threads at least.
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Originally Posted by DoctorZangief
Just give her EDF. He's basically her gimmick account at this point.
Why not just give her a thread in the EDF and consolidate everything MLYLT there? Win/win/win/win/win/ad infinitum
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02-12-2018 , 04:42 PM
Tom,

She quit OOT and kicked me out of her blog for too much directness. OOT and EDF are not the type of friendly, coddling environments she needs/wants.

The Lounge seems like the perfect fit.
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02-12-2018 , 04:55 PM
The funniest thing about her kicking El D out was that thremp is still allowed in there
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02-12-2018 , 04:58 PM
Thremp doesn't have the impulse to help her.
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02-12-2018 , 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Neil S
Thremp doesn't have the audacity to help her.
Fyp
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02-12-2018 , 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
Tom,

She quit OOT and kicked me out of her blog for too much directness. OOT and EDF are not the type of friendly, coddling environments she needs/wants.

The Lounge seems like the perfect fit.
Maybe she should change her user name to Goldilocks. OOT is too harsh; H&F is too coddling; etc. I thought maybe EDF could use the boost in traffic

I read her posts occasionally when I need a giggle or a wtf moment lift, but I have quit responding to her as I became concerned for her mental health and did not want to be an expedient to deterioration. She obviously doesn't take confrontation or criticism well, has little insight into her issues, and is generally non-compliant with mental health treatment. It is terribly hard to resist the temptation to poke a little fun at her, as we all know.
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02-12-2018 , 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
From the SS site:
"For each of the major body systems, we maintain a list of medical conditions that are so severe they automatically mean you are disabled"
The other criteria don't apply if you are automatically determined to be disabled from having a condition on the list.

The list of impairments are considered permanent or expected to result in death.
Bipolar qualifies because of the death risk of suicide from the number of people that commit suicide who are bipolar.
Before you get your heart set on disability, I just want to point out that you need to fulfill one of the following in addition to having Bi-polar Disorder:

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Extreme limitation of one, or marked limitation of two, of the following areas of mental functioning (see 12.00F):
Understand, remember, or apply information (see 12.00E1).
Interact with others (see 12.00E2).
Concentrate, persist, or maintain pace (see 12.00E3).
Adapt or manage oneself (see 12.00E4).
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Marginal adjustment, that is, you have minimal capacity to adapt to changes in your environment or to demands that are not already part of your daily life (see 12.00G2c).
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02-12-2018 , 05:40 PM
If the interact with others was interact with females, she'd be good to go.
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02-12-2018 , 05:43 PM
All you really need is a friendly doctor.
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02-12-2018 , 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted by ChipWrecked
All you really need is a friendly doctor.
Perhaps golf could hook her up.
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02-12-2018 , 05:56 PM
It's great how she's able to simultaneously hold the beliefs that she doesn't need a therapist because she has everything under control with her sleep graphs and positive thinking and whatnot, but also is possibly so crippled by her mental illness that she can't work.
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02-12-2018 , 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by ChipWrecked
All you really need is a friendly doctor.
Oh, okay, that's like here. As long as a doctor fills out the form and ticks the right boxes, nobody gaf.
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02-12-2018 , 06:23 PM
Where does your daughter factor into this?

Disability pay usually sucks ass. You're likely to go on SS/medicare disability, which my dad collected on. The process took years and a huge amount of money and time.

He made about ~$2k/month and that was with 3 dependents.

You (and your daughter) are almost certainly better off dealing with your issues in therapy and thriving in a career.
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