And you can do this without being the center of attention. I could sit quietly in the corner of a room and attract sexual attention from a guy and be completely faded into the background to everyone else. How is this being histrionic and needing to be the center of attention?
When I think of someone needing to be the center of attention I think of the guy that sits at the poker table and is immediately loud and trying to talk to everyone and act out and everyone's just thinking "shut the **** up already"

I'm not saying you have HPD. I'm saying you consistently demonstrate attention seeking, emotionally labile, hyperreactive interactions in your interpersonal relationships. Histrionic is a decent short word that encapsulates those things.

In other words, given the way you describe your own interactions, particularly with code, plus the way you interact with people on here, I'm surprised that you're surprised you scored high on an lol internet test where one of the trait measures was histrionic. There's plenty of overlap with histrionic and other symptoms and behaviors you've described or acknowledged.

Is it the word itself you don't like? I could actually get that; women being written off as hysterical for different reasons is bristling.

This cycle really will never end.

it's great for quality control. people will chose exile over containment with mly.

M,


It's telling that you've responded to pretty much every post today except that one.

You know what you need to do, but you just can't bear the thought of doing it. I can understand if you're not ready yet, but you also need to accept that things aren't really likely to change until you are ready to move on from code.

Seriously Tuma, what freaking PM were you talking about and how were you hurt? Like I'm seriously thinking someone got into my account and sent it to you and deleted it out of my sent file; I mean, I dunno what to think, I have no idea what you were talking about. If you could PM me and give me some sort of a clue that would be great.....this is beyond frustrating.

It's pierced?!?

If you were this person, you'd never ever think you were this person

Of course not. Too tiny. My body piercing is elsewhere.

Jmakin, lol they probably don't .

the pm was pretty scary. you were talking about hurting yourself, and i wanted to help somehow. maybe you deleted it, or maybe i was on an alt account and you're not looking in the correct place.

i wasn't actually butthurt over your judgement of my personality. my failures with women has been a long running joke with my friend anyways. (yes, i only have one friend.) i commented about it because it was surprising you'd betray me like a ***** after making me a confidente.

HOCKEY

Might be time for a new undertitle for MLYLT.

Mly,

Lol.

All,

Good luck. I'm done. Someone drop me a pm if tbab shows up. Otherwise I'll be in steak, pie, and dating threads.

How many quits for citanul now?

See, this is why he doesn't post here any more.

How did I betray you? What other username?
I almost feel like you are trolling me right now, this doesn't make any sense.
I would never do something intentionally to make you feel betrayed or hurt.

Jesus take a ****ing break and do something else.

What about the time you made a post intentionally presuming that Tuma had a small dick?

Endless excuses.

I'm aware that chubby chasers exist, but you have to know that the large majority of guys are just grossed out when they see a 250 lb. girl trying to attract sexual attention.

Min,

She's different and a lot of guys who normally like thin/fit girls are attracted to her!

Probably due to her athleticism

You of course sound like the serial killer in Silence of the Lambs.