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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
You see how I'm last on the priorities list, visiting me wasn't even mentioned.
You are the only one surprised by this.
Everyone else knows that you are not the priority for him, the questions being asked continually are,
"Why do you tolerate such behaviour?"
"Why is he stringing you along?"
"Why does he tolerate such behaviour?"
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
If I gave him my car, I wouldn't care where he went except for going to his ex sister in law's house or to go somewhere with his sister because of how they treated me, and I don't want them benefiting anything at all (not having to drive code around) from me. Yes, I would expect him to come to me on weekends within reason.
It isn't much of a gift if it comes with those strings attached? It is more of a tool for control.
Would you keep the car in your name and take it back when he visits his sis? What if she had an emergency and needed her brother? What if he was going to a family event and she was there or needed a ride?