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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Lapka,
Claiming that my behavior provoked you to attack me and caused you to be so insulting does not make it okay for you to do so, excuse it, nor does it make your attacks and insults correct.
And, you clearly do not know me at all and are misinterpreting the situation if you think my advice in the online dating thread showed a lack of empathy, or was self centered, or whatever other insult you threw out earlier.
Ooohhhh... I am reading your posts for now definitely more than two years. I and everyone else here knows you pretty well.
I thought more about how do I deal with people like you in RL. Luckily I never had a boss like you. My bosses have always been socially super competent. Also never someone at the same level. Privately people like you have never been in my life. I had few times to supervise someone like you.
I generally just stopped to try to give them instructions and let them do whatever they wanted. It always resulted in them pretty fast leaving the company.
With you..... Sadly I had left open the tab, where the ignore didn't work. But since I read your post, and read you insisting on discussing it out with me.... You bet you will get a response. What have I called you: "arrogant, incompetent, judgmental *****". I will give examples for every single of those qualities:
- judgmental -> your attitude towards people on social security, your attitude towards your fat sister
- arrogant -> your idea that your education as an engineer defines you as smarter than other people, your idea to use roommates as a cleaning service
- incompetent -> your defining a mechanical valve problem as CFD problem, your word salad post on entropy and most and foremost your inability to regulate your relationship with your boss
- ***** -> your attitude towards your boss, your attitude towards other women, your attitude towards your sister, your attitude towards code's family
Have I called you something else? Do you want to dig this one deeper?