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12-14-2017 , 11:43 AM
So glad that Golf has an ESA, since this thread is no longer for/about him.
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12-14-2017 , 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Lapka,

Claiming that my behavior provoked you to attack me and caused you to be so insulting does not make it okay for you to do so, excuse it, nor does it make your attacks and insults correct.


And, you clearly do not know me at all and are misinterpreting the situation if you think my advice in the online dating thread showed a lack of empathy, or was self centered, or whatever other insult you threw out earlier.

Ooohhhh... I am reading your posts for now definitely more than two years. I and everyone else here knows you pretty well.

I thought more about how do I deal with people like you in RL. Luckily I never had a boss like you. My bosses have always been socially super competent. Also never someone at the same level. Privately people like you have never been in my life. I had few times to supervise someone like you.
I generally just stopped to try to give them instructions and let them do whatever they wanted. It always resulted in them pretty fast leaving the company.

With you..... Sadly I had left open the tab, where the ignore didn't work. But since I read your post, and read you insisting on discussing it out with me.... You bet you will get a response. What have I called you: "arrogant, incompetent, judgmental *****". I will give examples for every single of those qualities:
- judgmental -> your attitude towards people on social security, your attitude towards your fat sister
- arrogant -> your idea that your education as an engineer defines you as smarter than other people, your idea to use roommates as a cleaning service
- incompetent -> your defining a mechanical valve problem as CFD problem, your word salad post on entropy and most and foremost your inability to regulate your relationship with your boss
- ***** -> your attitude towards your boss, your attitude towards other women, your attitude towards your sister, your attitude towards code's family


Have I called you something else? Do you want to dig this one deeper?
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12-14-2017 , 12:30 PM
MLYLT may be wrong in this discussion, but lapka seems to be going hard to paint for no discernible (at least to me) reason. It's almost like she (lapka) is offended that there are women out there that aren't as smart as she is.

Put me down for being on Team MLYLT, because, as a boss I had once said, "If you think you're above average that means half the people are dumber than you. Give them a break."
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12-14-2017 , 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Lapka attacked me.

In Russia, Lapka attack YOU!..
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12-14-2017 , 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by lapka
Howard put a pretty good description to your post on entropy : word salad.
Is that not embarrassing to you that an old lawyer is able to write more coherent on physics than you do?

BURN!
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12-14-2017 , 12:49 PM
Not the smarts are making me so upset. I mean..... Who really cares if the universe is gonna die the entropy death. It is more the consequently presented in many many many of her posts judgmental, disrespectful towards others, non-compassionate attitude of MLYLT. It is not just this post that set me off, but more the complete picture that she presents.

edit. She can make mistakes, everyone can make mistakes. Me too. But her judging other people on the basis of money, makes me want to point out and emphasize every single of her mistakes.

Last edited by anonla; 12-14-2017 at 12:55 PM.
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12-14-2017 , 12:55 PM
M,


Descriptions aren't attacks
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12-14-2017 , 01:00 PM
I need a break from this. So for the next few days I am no looking in here. Then.... I don't know......
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12-14-2017 , 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted by lapka
Ooohhhh... I am reading your posts for now definitely more than two years. I and everyone else here knows you pretty well.

I thought more about how do I deal with people like you in RL. Luckily I never had a boss like you. My bosses have always been socially super competent. Also never someone at the same level. Privately people like you have never been in my life. I had few times to supervise someone like you.
I generally just stopped to try to give them instructions and let them do whatever they wanted. It always resulted in them pretty fast leaving the company.

With you..... Sadly I had left open the tab, where the ignore didn't work. But since I read your post, and read you insisting on discussing it out with me.... You bet you will get a response. What have I called you: "arrogant, incompetent, judgmental *****". I will give examples for every single of those qualities:

- judgmental -> your attitude towards people on social security, your attitude towards your fat sister
-----agree to disagree on the walfare system as our opinions on this come from very different life experiences
-------sating that my fat sister is in the same mindset trap of fat logic that I was in is not being judgmental.

- arrogant -> your idea that your education as an engineer defines you as smarter than other people, your idea to use roommates as a cleaning service
-----I don't hold this idea, and believe that smart is defined in many ways by many different characteristics and I believe that everyone has value to add in their own ways. Always when working on something, I get the ideas and input from those around me and that will be affected because there are 100s of ways they are smarter than me and will see something from a different/better vantage point. It's pretty apparent at this point that you hold this idea though.

- incompetent -> your defining a mechanical valve problem as CFD problem

-----I don't have a PHD in physics, so my understanding of CFD might be lacking compared to yours, but I know that valves have a direct affect on velocity and pressure and CFD is used to size all of the Mechanical equipment of a system.
So not getting correct flow measurements has nothing to do with CFD.....?

, your word salad post on entropy
----I still haven't provided my explanation(I've got passive aggressive signs to hang in the break room and other very very important work to do), and I still hold that you are just misinterpreting what I was saying and are way off the mark by calling me clueless.

and most and foremost your inability to regulate your relationship with your boss
---Yeah, this is an area where I am not yet competent and can grow.

- ***** -> your attitude towards your boss, your attitude towards other women, your attitude towards your sister, your attitude towards code's family
------Meh, you aren't in my situation to judge if my attitudes in different circumstances are justified.


Have I called you something else? Do you want to dig this one deeper?
Responses above.
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12-14-2017 , 01:07 PM
MLYLT,

"I still haven't provided my explanation".

lol. Let us know when you have the time necessary to get those three sentences down in normal English.
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12-14-2017 , 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by lapka

edit. She can make mistakes, everyone can make mistakes. Me too. But her judging other people on the basis of money, makes me want to point out and emphasize every single of her mistakes.
I have never judged anyone on the basis of money lol. I don't care about money, material things, or materialistic status.
You really really don't know me as this isn't even a remote possibility to ever happen with me. Just lolololol at your statement.

From my experience of being a poor person for 90% of my life thus far, I believe that people can survive without welfare and it can become a hindrance in them improving their situation and that enabling people to more easily have more children hinders their progress of being self sufficient.
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12-14-2017 , 01:24 PM
Walfare. Like welfare, but available at Walmart?
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12-14-2017 , 01:25 PM
I'm here for the walfare
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12-14-2017 , 01:30 PM
MLYLT,

On a serious note, it's clear that you're kinda spiraling at the moment. Continue taking your meds, step away from the forum for a couple days, and call your therapist. Good luck.
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12-14-2017 , 01:32 PM
MLY,

Instead of impressing 2+2 with your vast knowledge of the math and sciences, you should put that energy toward understanding and helping your boss become a better boss. That could be as simple as shutting your mouth and doing what she asks of you.
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12-14-2017 , 01:44 PM
Those worksheets aren't going to staple themselves together you know.
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12-14-2017 , 01:55 PM
To “elude” means “to escape, in a skillful or cunning way.” To “allude” is to suggest or call attention to indirectly.

People have told you that one reason your posting is poor is that you pay no attention to detail on issues such as word choice and spelling. Your error here was unintentionally funny, which is why I called attention to it, but more generally, it reflects thoughtlessness in your approach. You jam posts out and pay no attention to what they really say or how they say it. And I seem to recall that you said you’d try to do better on this point. But you put no effort into it at all. Literally none.

That is one reason I don’t like the way you post.
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12-14-2017 , 02:24 PM
Rediculous!
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12-14-2017 , 02:33 PM
If MLYLT were to really, really concentrate and put forth solid effort, she could beat Lapka at English grammar/syntax/idiom. But she'd really have to concentrate. Lapka already crushes her at spelling.
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12-14-2017 , 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Howard Treesong
Your error here was unintentionally funny, which is why I eluded to it.
Fyp
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12-14-2017 , 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Didace
MLYLT may be wrong in this discussion, but lapka seems to be going hard to paint for no discernible (at least to me) reason. It's almost like she (lapka) is offended that there are women out there that aren't as smart as she is.

Put me down for being on Team MLYLT, because, as a boss I had once said, "If you think you're above average that means half the people are dumber than you. Give them a break."
This is ridiculous. The reason imo Lapka went in hard is due to the superior attitude Mlylt has displayed on numerous occasions. Even when asking for clarification Mlylt is insulting to her as shown below.

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Sure, I'll do this when I get some time this weekend. Ill break it down piece by piece and even take some time finding some good references/sources for those interested in learning more on the subject.

I'm open to the feedback that what I say isn't always written in the most comprehensive way; I'll write the post again in detail and clear up the confusion. I'll also add that if my post was incoherent and the impression you got was that I AM clueless, then you don't know what the **** your talking about.

Lapka is clearly proficient,very good with language, and intelligent; without a doubt estimable in that regard. But, I haven't seen a single post that would give me the impression she has a scientific knowledge base/thought process/reasoning to be saying that "all women in science aren't this clueless".

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Originally Posted by 27offsuit
In Russia, Lapka attack YOU!..


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Originally Posted by THAY3R
M,


Descriptions aren't attacks



It's particularly funny that Mlylt comes in demanding clarification but needs 24-48 hours response time. Hilarity everywhere! Good job people lol.
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12-14-2017 , 06:29 PM
Ahhh now the containment thread is getting back on track!
If only golfnutt could be half as entertaining
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12-14-2017 , 07:07 PM
Golfnutt eludes entertainment.
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12-14-2017 , 07:18 PM
Rexx,
I work full time and have a child. I'm working late today, have to run and get my child and go back to work for a while, then go home and cook and do homework/bath/bed routine, and I will be traveling tomorrow.
Yes, I wanted to take time to actually type out(on a computer!) a well thought out and well written response with plenty of references when I can get the time to do so.

Please remind me what you do all day that makes you feel justified in being critical of me and not wanting to quickly respond with an explanation during pee breaks and on my phone.
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12-14-2017 , 07:24 PM
MLY,

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