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his lack of desire for sex with her, but you like to characterize him as this desperate sex crazed guy who's clearly only in this insanity because he can't get laid otherwise.

I don't see how those are mutually exclusive. And we know he can get laid because of the rubber smell on his dick.

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04-20-2017 , 06:27 PM

#1677

Larry Legend

Celtic Pride

Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 42,920

My fiancee told me on Tuesday that she had a business trip for Wed and Thu that she had forgot to tell me about.

I think it was probably the first time ever she forgot to tell me (versus her yelling me and me forgetting), and we've both just been insanely busy recently so it didnt come up.

My reaction was along the lines of "oh, cool" and then we spoke about where it was and stuff about the event. You know, normal stuff people talk about.

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04-20-2017 , 06:30 PM

#1678

gder

veteran

Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 3,167

i keep reading about this, i dont know why. ive read her health blog, i dont know why.

its kind of like a trainwreck, i dont really want to look but for some strange reason i cant look away.

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04-20-2017 , 06:31 PM

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MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

So no one thinks that after I drove to him every weekend for almost a year and he was finally coming to me that he shouldn't have told his family he already had plans?

Everyone thinks he should have canceled coming completely because I texted that stuff to him?

Everyone thinks he should have broken up with me because I got mad when he canceled coming?

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04-20-2017 , 06:31 PM

#1680

Larry Legend

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Welcome gder

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04-20-2017 , 06:32 PM

#1681

jmakin

banned

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Originally Posted by Didace

I don't see how those are mutually exclusive. And we know he can get laid because of the rubber smell on his dick.

she complains he never initiates and that if it weren't for her, they probably wouldn't have sex (or something like that).

doesn't seem to be the sign of someone only in a relationship for sex.

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04-20-2017 , 06:32 PM

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gregorio

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

These were the messages I sent him when he stopped talking to me and ignored me for two days.

Yeah, me expressing that I want more time with him is a perfect reason for him not to come at all. I suspect he didn't even want to come and didn't care about hurting my daughter and was looking for any excuse not to have to.

fyp. Never try to argue over txt. Never send a 300-word txt. That always comes across as crazy. If you have complaints, wait until you calm down to express them. Anything else you want to say to him can wait until he gets there and needs to be discussed in person.

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04-20-2017 , 06:32 PM

#1683

anonla

Cause and effect

Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 5,487

M,

you are coming off needy and clingy and trying to give him guilt trip. I would so run if a guy would try the same **** with me. Run as fast as I can. The last thing I want in a relationship is to feel constantly guilty. I feel suffocated just by reading it.

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04-20-2017 , 06:33 PM

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jmakin

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

So no one thinks that after I drove to him every weekend for almost a year and he was finally coming to me that he shouldn't have told his family he already had plans?

It's perfectly reasonable for him to leave a few hours early on Sunday to see his family.

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Everyone thinks he should have canceled coming completely because I texted that stuff to him?

defiantly yes

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Everyone thinks he should have broken up with me because I got mad when he canceled coming?

you mean when you threatened him, emotionally blackmailed him using your daughter, etc. etc., when you have a history of emotional and physically abusive behavior towards him?

yes. defiantly, defiantly yes.

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04-20-2017 , 06:33 PM

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Larry Legend

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Mlylt,

Honestly no one really cares who breaks up with who but one of you needs to break up with the other.

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04-20-2017 , 06:34 PM

#1686

LKJ

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Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Everyone thinks he should have canceled coming completely because I texted that stuff to him?

Of course. "That stuff" is the "threatening to shoot him" stuff, right?

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Everyone thinks he should have broken up with me because I got mad when he canceled coming?

Everyone thinks he should have broken up with you because your relationship is terrible and doesn't work. But apparently he didn't break up with you and you got to break up with him instead, so congratulations, to the winner go the spoils, etc.

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04-20-2017 , 06:35 PM

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anonla

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Originally Posted by gregorio

fyp. Never try to argue over txt. Never send a 300-word txt. If you have complaints, wait until you calm down to express them. Anything else you want to say to him can wait until he gets there and needs to be discussed in person.

Greg,

You are one of my fav posters. Your advice is always on point. And this one is really good not only for M.

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04-20-2017 , 06:35 PM

#1688

gregorio

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Originally Posted by Very Josie

Who is the face-cupper?

I think he's the bondage guy.

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04-20-2017 , 06:37 PM

#1689

mullen

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

1. No. Sounds like his brother is flakey and for the sake of the birthday and constant delays, he would leave you a few hours early. He would still spend the whole weekend with you. Everyone wins!

2. It is understandable he canceled.

3. After you threatened his life and wished death on his family, yes he should have.

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04-20-2017 , 06:38 PM

#1690

gregorio

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lapka,

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04-20-2017 , 06:39 PM

#1691

DoctorZangief

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

I mean it and he is dead to me. There is no coming back from hurting my daughter.

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04-20-2017 , 06:40 PM

#1692

anonla

Cause and effect

Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 5,487

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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

He did the right thing by going to his mom's birthday

Yes

He should have broken up with you, because this relationship is detrimental for your well being (and his too

). You should make not code, but your mental health a priority. You should take your meds and do what therapists have told you to do. This whole thing is sooooooooo bazaar.

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04-20-2017 , 06:41 PM

#1693

Gerb iLL

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Face cupper took her on a date then tied her tits with rope til they were purple.

Get with the showgram.

Also, she apparently will never find someone, but she found someone to hog tie her after a dinner.

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04-20-2017 , 06:41 PM

#1694

pokeraz

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Those texts make you look really bad. Shouldn't have posted them as they confirmed what everyone already knew.

And stop using your daughter as a tool.

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04-20-2017 , 06:42 PM

#1695

Gerb iLL

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Also, you apparently have posted YouTube videos with your real name then just now posted your daughter's name.

What the **** is wrong with you? Stop imperilling your daughter every chance you get for attention from code or here. It's beyond disgusting.

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04-20-2017 , 06:44 PM

#1696

MeLoveYouLongTime

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Originally Posted by mullen

It's understandable he canceled even though he promised my kid he would come to her game? That's understandable? You wouldn't get mad?

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04-20-2017 , 06:50 PM

#1697

gregorio

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You were furious with him before he cancelled; that's why he cancelled. Did you break up before or after he said he's not coming? If you were broken up, do you expect him to rent a car and drive 2 hours to watch the game of a girl he's never going to see again.

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04-20-2017 , 06:50 PM

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mullen

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Code is not your husband. He's not your child's father. His relationship with your child exists because of you. Stop using her to manipulate him into doing your bidding.

You acted clingy and sent him tons of unreasonable texts (including basically demanding that he use all his vacation days on your behalf, and saying that subtracting a few hours of a full weekend with you to attend his mother's birthday was not making you a priority)

You're oblivious to your behavior, so it's understandable for you to get mad of course. It's even expected. But threatening to shoot him and wishing death on his family is overreacting.

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04-20-2017 , 06:54 PM

#1699

Bighurt52235

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Originally Posted by jmakin

Lol the problem isn't him, it's her. And the therapists realize this and that it'll never work - not because there's anything wrong with him.

I mean, he certainly has his flaws, but every post he's made here has seemed completely reasonable and rational (discounting the pull out stuff) and her **** has seemed borderline/outrightly abusive. I don't really get the flak he takes here. Breaking up with someone like MLY is very hard - there's the manipulation, the blackmail, the threats. It's easier to just stay in it.

Plus despite MLY's claims i think it's pretty damn obvious he cares a great deal about her and the child. She just wants to make him into something he isn't, which is wrong.

+1 to all of this. #teamcode

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04-20-2017 , 06:55 PM

#1700

marknfw

Gaming Commissioner

Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 13,095

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Originally Posted by Very Josie

Saying "the shooting stuff" is super crazy.

Any guy would run screaming from your needy pathetic reaction to his leaving a little early. I'm sorry but it's true. That kind of smothering makes anyone want to run in opposite direction.

Who is the face-cupper?

You really need to take the time to read the entire fat off thread. You will regret every single word of advice you've given to bikini girl. This drama is quite simply Groundhog Day in real life. We've all seen it time after time after time. Face cupper is quite the story though, even allowing that it's probably 90% that he's a made up character being used to make code3 realize how wrong and terrible he is.

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