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Originally Posted by Rexx14
Oh wait I've thought of some and they have nothing to do with you and Mlylt. Why don't you eat vegetables? Oh and did you actually not know what an orange was, like Mlylt suggested?
Thanking you in advance.
I don't eat zero vegetables, just not many...don't like the taste...not sure what kind of answer you're expecting. Yes I know what an orange is.
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Originally Posted by Montecore
So the only reason you need a car is to drive to see the person whose mental fitness you routinely question and that you break up with every two months/aren't really actually dating?
Also, you skipped the second part of my question.
Having a car would be nice for a few different things, wouldn't have to uber as much, and could visit my mom without having to ride with my brother.
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Originally Posted by lapka
That is what makes code a total butt. And not even cats do save him.
Duuuude....... YOU send her mixed signals. That is sooooo incredibly mean.
How can you be so immature? You riding yourself, her and a child on top into hell of completely dysfunctional relationship, because it isn't functional when your family doesn't even know that you are together, it isn't functional when she is grateful like a dog for every hug, it isn't functional, when you few days ago rant abut her and how it is over, and then pull her back again.
You are a butt and she is crazy manipulative ungrateful *****. You both treat each other the way that is just not OK.
My family is aware of our relationship, they just don't see each other.
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Wow, so much to say.
Code, I'm not sure why you are saying that I have 2-3 mental disorders. Yes, I agree that our relationship isn't as dysfunctional as I portray here, but come on, trying to make it seem like I'm even crazier than I am....I don't even understand what you are trying to do.
Not trying to do anything, bipolar, narcissism, extreme insecurities, I'm not a professional therapist but these seem pretty well documented.
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Code, you told me recently that you "put up" with my craziness and stood by my side. You have mental issues as well and I don't want to "put up" with them, I want to work through them with you. Can you try to adjust your perspective to work through my mental illness with me? It's like you want me to go to therapy and just be fixed, but I need your support.
I'm wrong as well , I keep complaining about your affection and not initiating sex when I know those are things you need to work through and overcome. I see how you are incapable of sex unless you get clear permission and how it's hard for you to feel anything. I know you aren't a sociopath and you have been able to create a much better defense mechanism than I ever had to not feel things.
Ok, I'm manipulative just as you are. You take things away from me to control me and punish me. You shun me from your family and tell me "it's because you have to suffer the consequences of your actions" You take away telling me you love me because you know it hurts me and intensifies my fear of not being loved. You break up with me as punishment to teach me a lesson. These are manipulative things to do and hurt me.
I don't do things to punish you. I've simply told you over and over that actions have consequences, so think before you act, you need to work on impulse control in therapy. It's not me punishing you if people don't want to be around you because of how you've acted.
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Rex,
He won't eat vegetables because a part of his mind is stuck in time where he is 10-12 years old. It's not just with food, but with other things. I know something tramatic happened that he won't talk to me about and that he is hiding from me and himself, I know because I recognized some of the same patterns in myself. He needs therapy just as bad as I do.
His defense is to just never deal with things or feel anything and my defense is to live in a fantasy world in my head. For me, it's like I wasn't allowed to feel the emotions before because I had to always keep it together and move forward.
Nothing traumatic happened to me, I deal with things fine
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Originally Posted by Larry Legend
Snap call.
I'll give you one chance to fold, seeing as I know a lot about you over the course of these threads and you know nothing about me.
I scored perfect on every state administered test growing up and took the SATs in 5th grade.
I think you're confused. I haven't made any statements regarding your intelligence, why are you taking a test? You seem like a reasonably smart guy. You, on the other hand have repeatedly called me stupid, really dumb, etc. So, the bet is I take a test, and leave it up to judges if the results show I'm "stupid" or "really dumb".