Seems unlikely a random would use the term "live blog" or call herself "stoner girl".

Such a win win situation.

Goofy,

Wtf? Ask the girl (or girls Idk if that was several?) out. That's how you should reply.

Stoner girl,

What bar are you at?

your messages seem too formal/forced/try-hard for me; but she seems interested

I don't think she'd be able to figure out that we'd call him ATF. Can believe the 10 scotches though

I like to think he was drunk, she caught him, he drunkenly told her what he was doing and she told him to type something. He being ATF of course went along with this and typed that message up. He probably changed his real name to ATF when typing.

That wasn't his screen name right?

looool please somehow be real

Met the hottest women in my online dating career off Match.

goofy,

that kind of standard one liner is normal. she is being coy about you calling her out for breaking the law. some would call that flirting. The girl in the convo below did it. She is just indicating a baseline of interest and seeing what kind of followup you can send.

I would go with some kind of "I won't tell on you if you do it again. But be warned, being cute can only get you so far with cops, as I know from my last speeding ticket" or something idk.




had probably my best/most efficient message exchange with a girl who 5 starred me.




had put off texting her since I was dealing with the other birthday girl, but hit her up today briefly to set up something next week.


also have this girl who I have been "messaging" since I first sent her a message in September... we've probably exchanged 1 message every 2-4 weeks lol but our schedules have not worked out mainly due to my shoulder surgery (and the response rate). but that has kind of become an inside joke and I think we will probably meet up soon, finally went in for a number haha.

goofyballer: Don't get caught up writing those long messages just because she started it. Even if she's interested they take more time and work to respond to, which means at best you're not getting a quick response. At worst she'll lose interest by the time she actually gets around to responding to all that and you'll never hear from her again.

A girl I knew from back in the day saw me on OKC and hit me up. Grabbed drinks with her and killed it because I'm so suave, good looking and humble. Tinder is neat, but weird. Lots of chicks like my profile and ignore me when I hit them up. My face is good looking enough to like but I blow it with, "How's your weekend going?"

Been having a good back and forth with a girl, asked her out, she said yes but "I'm a bit nervous, you'd be the first person I'd met through online". What's a good response? Normally I'd say something fun and sarcastic, but not sure that's best

Hiiiii guys...stoner girl again, he tells me its almost impossible that hes let me into this little blog world of yours, BUT he has and I dont know how many of you follow him- heres what I can tell u. He talked me into letting him come to my place and has tried to f me at least twice. Now we are drinking wine and I just got high and we are sitting here...

I don't even...lol

lol

live blogs require pics fwiw. Pictures are worth a thousand words and all that nonsense.

TR w DoesThatMakeAnySense

Well, what can I say?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSpqObhK4Rw

Match was garbage for me. Bloody expensive, full of bugs, instant chat never worked properly, low traffic. Feel like there is no reason to use it, so much more effective to go on okc and do the volume game.

Traffic is so disproportionately the most important thing in online dating;
you could have the best-looking and functioning site in the world and really cheap, and if the traffic is bad it's not worth a damn in my book. And unless I'm mistaken noone can beat OKC and POF for traffic.

if you wanna be "serious", tell her you understand, and tell her to go for coffee/tea. casual, no pressure, and girls know coffee/tea on a first date is low pressure.

if it sucks, drinking a cup takes 10 - 15 minutes. if it's awesome, it can last a lot longer. don't pick something that takes forever, nahmean?

you don't wanna ask her out on a hiking trip if she's nervous about meeting you for the first time.

hard to get physical at coffee/tea if you hit it off though, so find a place with a couch.

Gonna -1 this.

I vote for say whatever you were going to say that was fun/sarcastic, then ask her for drinks. (Though you prob answered already, but just as a general guideline anyway)

Drinks >> coffee, 100% of the time.

TR w DoesThatMakeAnySense

Now that I'm sober I wanna give a legitimate TR with DTMAS. I ship her a text around 3 saying we ought to meet at x-bar, which is about a 2 minute walk from both of us. She replies with some comment about the weather (it was snowing) and I'm figuring the next text is going be some cop out, flake text. Instead she says she's gonna be there.

I get to the bar about 5 minutes early and it's PACKED... a zoo. I put my name down for a table and wait. She arrives, I give her a hug - which she seems lukewarm or weirded out about, maybe bc it was a packed bar - and I order us drinks. We stand around for 10 minutes chatting, waiting for our table. Eventually we sit - the seating couldn't be worse, directly across from one another - and proceed to chat. I can't really tell if she's into me or not. After like an hour I kinda grab her hands and ask her about her ring, within 15 minutes after that I'm sitting next to her and withing 5 minutes of that we're making out a bit at the bar. At some point both our phones are on the table and AH calls me, who, for some reason, she knows about (I told her, I think, on our phone convo)... making me look like a "player."

Eventually we go outside for a smoke and I talk her into letting me come over to her place to "get high and have fun." We get her car, get to her place, pick up a bottle of wine at the market on the first floor and proceed to drink it and she smokes some weed. We have good chemistry and it seems like we've known each other for a lot longer than a few hours. She's super cool, personable and fun. As stated, I try to **** her a few times but she says "no, if I **** you I'll block you out and we'll never see each other again" or something to that effect. We waffle on whether I should stay over or whether that will throw off the dynamic. Eventually I put my shoes on and grab a cab home.

My initial excitement was right. She was hot and cool. Unfortunately she's outta town for the next few weekends so the spa / fingerbang / hand job date is gonna have to wait.

Oh yeah, at some point, at her place, she asks me about my dick. I offer to take it out... she's like "eww gross" and then is like, "ok, let's see it". So she helps me take it out and calls it "cute".

Easily the best time / most connected I've had with an OKC broad.

She smokes weed out of a crack pipe...

+1 I've done several coffee/lunch dates and it's been pretty failtastic. Suggest the drinks or activity involving drinking and let her bring up the "safe" date if she's uncomfortable.