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Originally Posted by ganstaman
I just joined the site a week ago, but so far there appears to be no shortage of options. NJ is the most densely populated state in the country, so even outside of big cities there are lots of people within a reasonable distance.
Also, since I just joined the site, I figure I can see what's available nearer to me before branching out. If the route to this guy had places worth going to along the way, then maybe the hour drive would be worthwhile, but it's through the middle of nowhere.
I remember when I lived in central NJ and first joined OKC 3 years ago, I was really annoyed that I couldn't filter the distance close enough to exclude girls who lived in NYC. This was simply not a feasible distance for me to travel to meet someone on a regular basis, and since most girls who live in NYC don't have cars, it's unlikely we could meet halfway or they could come to me.
I think 50-60% of people it tried to match me with lived in NYC, another 30% lived in Philly (which was a little more reasonable from where I lived), and 10-20% actually lived in NJ or close by in eastern PA.
Living in a big city in a red state now, I need to be much more concerned with cultural compatibility, but distance is much less of an issue. I don't think I've ever driven more than 20 minutes to meet someone, and almost half my first dates I set up somewhere I can walk to.