No I didn't pass on anything. After we made out a bit in her car I asked her if she wanted to come in and have a beer. She declined. No matter--we're hanging out again on Wednesday.

I'm not ****ing up opportunities like it's my day job. I have laid the pipe with two girls in the past two weeks.

I can assure you that you're completely off the mark in calling her unstable lol

I'm curious about your other comment though about getting the wool pulled over my eyes. How did you come to this definitive conclusion and in relation to what?

I wonder what the average number of dudes girls hook up with(at least bj) is when they study abroad for a semester.

I'd personally set the line at 5

Just got a phone number after chatting with a pretty cool girl on OKC for about 24 hours

Seeing that message was like

He probably thinks shes unstable because she gets enjoyment out of destroying other people's lives.

@Lazy: Too high bro probably 1-2 if that, 5 average for a semester damn as if every chick is a wild whore lol

Average is probably low, of sexually active its prob around 4.

LOL how is she destroying their lives? The guys are actively looking to cheat on their significant other. How does her ***** with them and not actually meeting up with them destroying their lives?

This is surprising coming from a woman. You think it's alright for guys in relationships to seek out pussy on the side?

@DDIP: I share a lot of similar sentiments of swag here. Its a little concerning how things developed(my my understanding of everything).

The major red flag is obviously her trolling of online dating. Obviously this is a sign of immaturity(as you have already admitted). A girl like this is not really worth dating, and this is ignoring the age difference and the fact she is about to go on a study abroad. Add those in and I wouldnt get anywhere past f buddy with this girl, no matter how chill she acts when we hang out.

The main reason I said the "wool over the eyes" comment is your reaction towards the message from the guy she "stood up". You claimed it was hilarious, which may be somewhat true, but in the situation I would be like, "wtf are you showing me this, you are insane, this isnt normal, etc.".

I imagine she was telling you the stories of her trolling and was look look at this hilarious response I got from a guy I deceived, and then you both shared a laugh, This being your reaction, show that you are not seeing things clearly.

If guys are on dating sites and in relationships, there is a non zero chance they are in an open relationship, especially if they make their relationship known prior to meeting up.

All I read was this:
Just because they have "seeing someone" listed on OKC, it does NOT mean they are looking to cheat. Profiles become old and it's left up or when it becomes serious they simply change the status.

Even if the guy explicitly wrote in his profile, "married/LTR but looking to cheat for some 'pussy' on the side" WHY your first thought would be to lie and manipulate them is not a natural reaction.

It's just a random person with a life you know nothing about. Signing up for a website just to target people for your own entertainment isn't messed up at all to you?

She sounds like she needs a new hobby. When I'm bored I play a little xbox, watch some worldstar hiphop, maybe visit a site like Khan academy to brush up on knowledge.

As others have said, this is way high.
I really hope I'm reading this wrong

24 hours of chatting? To be real you can get digits in 5 mins. But Im happy for you.

@Tyler Arent you a Lawyer? How do you not 'lay the pipe' to 2 girls every week?

MORE SO:

why are you defending her actions as if they are normal?

Did you ever run across a profile and think.. maybe in a relationship? I'm going to **** with her and set up fake dates just to be destructive!!! Then brag about it to people.

You don't think that'd be even a lil' crazy? That's what you're dating.

This is an interesting point for a topic I wonder about. But first, lawyers don't make that much money on average. Average is the operative word here, since TD could have a Harvard law degree which would be real money. But generally, when you break down what lawyers make per hour it's nothing special, especially compared to doctors who pump a minimum of $100/hr+. Lot of lawyers work 60+ hours to make only 90-100k whoopee lol

The other point is, even if you make 200k+, does it really help your game when picking up at bars in any sense other than confidence boost and wearing nice things? (Watch, clothes, etc). Does simply saying "I'm a lawyer" while acting and dressing the exact same vs saying "I'm a teacher" make a massive difference for odds of laying pipe that night?

meh 5 is high I guess but I think most attractive girls will get at least 2 new dicks while studying abroad

Haha yeah I just tell girls I'm an attorney in the DC area and they drop a puddle. Never mind that there are ~50,000 lawyers in the DC/Baltimore region. Some girls around here just roll their eyes when I answer their "what do you do for a living?" question with the answer they are expecting 90% of the time.

Yeah 3bet I think it does (Everything else being equal).

For any Lawyer it is prolly better to just casually mention his occupation when asked or tell a funny story where it comes up. (Basically never brag or offer his occupation)

The teacher prolly should brag and talk about all the good **** he is doing at school
As for Tyler he seems to oddly lack confidence and probably intimidates women a bit by overcompensating.

Haha no I do not lack confidence. Why do you think so? Judging me by an online persona is probably not a great idea.

How do you tell a woman you're a Computer Science student? Would it be better to add that you want to learn about investing?

Well you shouldve had a perfect week by now (Instead of bragging about a whole 2 girls in 2 weeks) . Seriously girls should be calling you, texting you etc etc-

Be the first one to joke about your job title in any 1 on 1 firt time meeting convos.

You tell them "I study computer science"

They won't care and that's a good major

bro, you are sorely mistaken if you think "attractiveness" is the determining factor in how much dick a girl gets in these situations.

Am I the only one who always carries a couple condoms with me when meeting women or going any place where I think there's a greater than 1% chance of getting laid? I always have two in the car and carry two in my pocket on dates.