Nick, try to follow me on this one:
1. You're quite good looking and attractive
2. During your dates, you
talk about how hard it is to get published, and the amazingly quantitative nature of modern political science
3. You take your dates to normal places, dinner, shows, bars where nearly all successful dates go.
You're doing less than ideally dating. If you had to pinpoint the most likely reason for that out of #1, 2 & 3, which number do you think it would be?
Bonus question: If you had to pinpoint the single thing on that list that's most different to successful daters, what would it be out of 1, 2 & 3?
Bonus bonus question: What conversation topic out of the following do you imagine a girl is most likely to enjoy and feel comfortable with during dinner?
- academia in general
- trying to get published
- the tough job market
- how intensely quantitative political science has become recently
- amusing slightly self deprecating anecdotes from your non working life
Thanks for any responses which might help us clear up this mystery.