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Originally Posted by bigt2k4
I've never bought a girl a drink at a bar that I hadn't been hanging out with or at least an hour. I think it seems just way too desperate. I also expect her to return the favour if we just met.
Different from a date, where I will always pay for the first time.
I think it's classless to ask for a drink. I wouldn't accept one unless it was insisted on and I had been talking for awhile. I'm on a mission to find guys, not drinks. I also don't consume more than 1 or 2 drinks when I'm out unless I'm with someone that I have been exclusively dating. My tolerance is pretty low. I'm on antibiotics, so I wasn't able to make it out of the house last night. I've learned my lesson.
As for paying on dates, the majority of the guys I've dated have always refused to let me pay. I used to try doing it anyway, but it usually made them uncomfortable. This might be because they make much more money than me. My ex was the only guy who would make me spoil him, and he turned out to be a psychopath. I'll admit that I don't make the best choices when it comes to men.
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Originally Posted by KPowers
While we're on it
Garcia, do you use exclamation points all the time when you talk to girls or do you just do it on here to annoy everyone as much as possible? Because I think I speak for everyone when I say it's annoying and I want to throw a toaster at you most of the time.
Unless you're a very enthusiastic guy, girls are going to think it's weird when they meet you.